I tried to email my boyfriend,but he wont email me back,so i tried to call him and he didn't answer.His mom answered and now she hates me and I think he hates me,too because I might have got him in trouble.I don't think he wants to talk to me anymore.Should I break up with him or not?I really like him a lot!
2006-07-07 09:41:53 · 55 answers · asked by ♥Misspretty♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met another boy and he thinks I am cool.I think he is cool,too.
2006-07-07 09:43:54 · update #1
My dear, if he's not answering anything from you, I believe he already made the choice.
2006-07-07 09:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by shadowgrrl2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well next time you see him in person ask whats up. You should stop calling if he isn't answering. He is either in trouble/grounded maybe not allowed to have girlfriends or he is avoiding you. You cant be sure which of the two is true so just ask next time you see him. If you don't see him for a while then maybe leave him a message saying that you feel like the relationship may have ended without you really knowing and if he could just let you know by phone, email...something. Then that's all you need. If you get nothing then, it is over and you should move on. It will be hard, but be strong and live for yourself. Take care!
2006-07-07 09:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have emailed him and called him with no effect then you have done all you can reasonably do.
Don't apologise (unless the last time you saw him you hit him with something) !
You don't have to actually break up with him.
Just mentally get on with your Summer vacation and enjoy yourself.
In the end I think the trait men like most in women is an independant attitude... because that way when the girl ends up needing them it is because they need them as individuals and not just as a generic prop.
If you keep trying to contact him it just makes you feel worse and him feel cornered.
It is a really tough situation, it makes you feel terrible because of the uncertainty of it.
Trust me, I have chased girls who didn't want me and I have been chased by girls who I wanted freedom from.
In retrospect (I am married now) I wish I could have been more open with the girls who I wanted to move on from and more able to forget the girls who wanted me to move on (before I got to the point of total humiliation :).
Oh....mustn't forget.... part of being independant is not needing a guy to make you feel whole !
So even though the new guy is cool.....you be cool too !
2006-07-07 10:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by yepwellmaybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, but try not to be quite so emotional about this. Why not give him a little space and give him a chance to contact you? I doubt that he "hates you" esp. if he has been your boyfriend. Maybe he just needs a little space - It's been 23 years since I was your age, but I doubt things have changed too much over time. 13 is still awfully young and boys mature much slower than girls. Give him some space. He's just a kid - if he calls, great. If not, you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend who will be a little more respectful of your feelings. ~K.
2006-07-07 10:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by kknox70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has already broken up with YOU. I had this friend one time that when he wanted to break up with a girl he didn't tell her, he just stopped calling her, and he was 22 at the time, childish I know, but some guys are afraid of that type of confrontation, because they don't want to see the pain that they have caused, they can't be a man about things.
2006-07-07 09:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You are 13...at your age boyfriends come and go, as they are suppose to. At 13 your are suppose to be breaking up, going together, and breaking up again. You should not be sleeping with anyone at your age, or getting so serious about any one person. This is your time to test the waters, not jump in head first without a life jacket.
2006-07-07 09:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by Fire Storm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, your question shouts 13. Honestly, give up on him. He is not that worth it as to act that immature with you. You will find the real deal later on. This guy sounds bogus. Juts dump his whiny little middle school mentality ***. You can be classy and just go for the what's better out there and not some little boy. You like his appearnece but honestly, I don't think you REALLY like him. Good luck :)!
2006-07-07 09:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should break up with him girl life is too short you are only 13 don't get wrapped up with a boy who ignores you. You should never wait around for a guy to decide if he likes you or not move on there will be plenty of boys that come through your life that will be much better
2006-07-07 09:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isnt talking to you he may be grounded. Call back and when his mom answers ask her and you will know for sure. If he is the one not wanting to talk to you then move on. You are young there are many more boys out there that will like you.
2006-07-07 09:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just can't break up with him you need to talk to him first. He may not be answering the phone but you need to see him and if it seems like it won't work out then move on. If you got him in trouble he'll eventually get over it and have to talk to you. Well hope that helps and good luck.
2006-07-07 09:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to u is just move on and go with the other guy because it wouldn't be worth it for a girl who is probably sexier than any other girl to waste hear time waiting for some guy who doesn't pay attention to u, A girl deserves to have a guy who will love hear and who will stand by her side and help her through her struggles and her tough times
2006-07-07 09:53:00 · answer #11 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋