He won't answer the phone when I call, I am really scared that he will have another woman over even though he says he doesn't want to be with anybody right now. I don't want him to be mad and I surely don't want him to think I am psycho.
2006-07-07 09:29:53 · 18 answers · asked by thisnbrains 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Stopping at his house does qualify as being a complete psycho. If he says, I"I don't want to be with anybody right now." It means he doesn't want to be with you. Showing up at his place isn't going to magically convince him he's wrong. You probably just heard about his feelings, but he's probably been thinking about it for a long time. The best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else. Be safe, use a condom, and try not to act too crazy.
2006-07-07 09:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by 4evaluvu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little sister i'm sorry. I know this is'nt what you want to hear but, if he broke up with you and won't even talk to you.....It's not gonna happen. I know you want to know why he ended the relationship, I know you're not ready to see him with someone else, I know you want a chance to get back together.......But it's not gonna happen love. I'm sorry.
You are a beautiful girl. You're smart and i'm sure you're talented. You're sweet, kind and endurring. You've got a million qualities and if this guy is too self consumed to see that then that's his loss.
Have a little more self respect for youself love. Don't go over to his house and stop calling him. You're giving the impression that you're desperate. You and I both know you're not desperate.
I'm sorry honey bunny but this realtionship is over. Chaulk it up to personal experiance and a lesson learned on what NOT to look for in a guy next time.
You'll be ok. You'll be just fine. I promise. Best of luck to you little sister. Take care.
2006-07-07 16:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want him to think that you are a psycho, then stop acting like one. Give the guy some space and time to breathe. And forget about him. If he has another girl, so what, you 2 dont have a relationship anymore.
2006-07-07 16:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that would be a good idea if he is with another women which is a good chance because he broke up with you and you see them together he is going to get mad and you are going to be embaressed. Sorry about that it sucks
If you need to talk just email me
2006-07-07 16:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by gillettelana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep calling him and emailing him until he gives you the answers you want. If you really want him back just give him his space that's all. You don't need him if anything try to find something you learned from him so this will never happen to you again.
2006-07-07 16:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about his breaking up with you that you don't get? Why are most women so blind and so numb to the obvious. Do you want to live in your dream world forever?
Good riddence to bad rubbish! Move on!
Or, you can choose to live in that dream world and model the behavior of a stalker and see how that works for you!
2006-07-07 16:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, u dont need a reminder of what once was, the best thing is to try and give it time between you to. thats the only way u will be able to get over him. talking to him again will only make things worse. i once thought that trying to even stay friends with my ex would be good for me. but its not at all especially when the breakup was as recent as it was. give it time it will be hard, but things will become clear.
2006-07-07 16:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by josh m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM GO!!! You'll only make it worse and on top of that you'll embarrass yourself. What difference does it make why he did it? He didn't want to be with you anymore. Do yourself a really big favor and start putting you life back together. It may take time but one day when someone mentions his name you'll be able to say...Who?
2006-07-07 16:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to his house there just might be another female there. Some things are better left unknown
2006-07-07 16:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about him and find someone else besides even if he did have a reason would it make you feel better?
2006-07-07 16:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋