2006-07-07 09:22:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
NEVER GET MARRIED BECAUSE OF A CHILD!!!
Sorry about that. I married my first husband only because of our daughter. I didn't really love him and we were all miserable. My second husband and I waited 13 years and married one month before our third child was born.
Take a good, long, hard look at your life together before you make your choice. You owe it to yourself, him AND that baby.
Good luck!
2006-07-07 09:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better know you made the right choice BEFORE you get married. Don't get married because of baby.
2006-07-07 17:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by ayri_eagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a baby's on the way, then that's the only reason you need to get married. a child needs an intach home with both mommy and daddy present. unless you're going to give it up for adoption (a great choice for people who cannot take care of their children. ie too young etc), then get married and make it work for the sake of your child
2006-07-07 17:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do Not get married because of a baby. It won't work out if you do that. If you truly love him/her then yes go ahead and get married, but do it when you two are ready. Do not do it when everyone else thinks you should.
2006-07-07 22:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by angelblueyes200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have second thoughts about it then just put it off for a while, seperate yourself for a day or two from your fiance' and just relax, dont think too hard. Your thoughts and feelings will guide you to the true answer. Whatever your decision is , remember.... you can always make a change.
2006-07-07 16:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER GET MARRIED OR STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF A CHILD U WILL ONLY REGRET THAT U DID LATER TRUST ME I HAD 3 KIDS WITH A MAN I REALLY DIDN'T LOVE AND WE WERE TOGETHER GRANTED 7 YEARS BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER THAN I AM WITH MY HUSBAND NOW WHO MAKES ME LAUGH AND ENJOYS MY LAUGHTER
2006-07-13 23:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's the right time and the right person, you will know, there will be no doubts. But never because of a child.
2006-07-07 16:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lovinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are ready.
if you don't ever find out that you made the wrong one.
nope never make legal decisions based on love.
your children only need your love.
city hall and the IRS want the license.
2006-07-07 16:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by justnotright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋