How do you know if your boyfriend is hiding things from you or cheating on you?

Answer 1

Go with your gut but don't be paranoid

Answer 2

There are a number of things to look for, that may objectively indicate that your boyfriend (or girlfriend!) may be cheating or otherwise dis-satisfied with the relationship. These include the following (and more!):
1. Is he often late, without good explanation and with poor communication;
2. If he is evasive when you ask him what should be considered normal questions about his day;
3. If when you approach him with a smile and a hug when you first get together at the end of the day, he seems to pull back;
4. If he does not keep commitments and promises;
5. If he is defensive, argumentative, or seems to not want to talk, often claiming that "this is the difference between men and women" and says he needs to "go to his cave" when you say you need to spend more time together, bond, work on the relationship, seek counseling, or have sex;
6. If you find miscellaneous objects in your private space, that you can not account for (such as sun glasses, bottles of makeup, or other feminine objects, that are not yours), and he doesn't know, or doesn't remember where they came from;
7. If you catch him in direct/obvious lies;
8. If he does not treat you with respect at all times (becomes emotionally or physically abusive).

If these things are going on, you need to re-evaluate your reasons for being in the relationship. You may need to get some outside help, in the form of counseling, to help you assess this.

Answer 3

The tendency to change the subject or not tell the whole truth. like saying he is going somewhere but not saying with who. Some guys are extra affectionate when they are cheating in an attempt to hide the fact that they are hanging with someone else. In the end it is best to just ask.

Answer 4

You usually have a bad feeling about them if you are thinking that they are hiding things from you or cheating on you. Trust your inner voice, it's usually right.

Answer 5

you must suspect he is, if you are asking this question... Go with those feelings and ask him. It come down to whether he is honest or not or whether you are just paranoid.....

Have you been hurt by another guy and still looking to get hurt again.... this might be a reason for paranoia.

Or is he acting differently than he did before, earlier in your relationship... there might be something up... but you need to talk about to find out... honesty and communication is key to any relationship

Answer 6

women have a 6 sense and if u really feel that he is then most likely he is unless u are a real jealous person and if u are becarefully because jealous can make u think something happen and it really not

Answer 7

If you think he is doing these things, he probably is. Trust your instinct and DO NOT think you are paranoid....in fact, he WILL use this ploy if you ask him...he will say, "Your just paranoid" or something like that.........when a man is faithful and truthful MOST women can feel it.

Answer 8

His routine will change and he will start acting like theres something bothing him...This is called guilt and you cannot hide this...

Clowmy

Answer 9

If you think he is, he probably is. Unless you are the jealous type because sometimes jealous people create drama when there isn't any. If this isn't you, trust your instincts. You'll be thanking yourself later.

Answer 10

You can't ever truly know unless he says so or if you catch him in the act. Get one of your girlfriends, maybe one he does not know to hit on him and see what happens.

Answer 11

If you have the feeling that he is, I hate to say it but it's probably true. You have to confront him and see how you feel about the way he reacts. Trust your instincts.