There is this person at my job that always smells sweet and seems to have an eye for me too. Problem is...I already have a girlfriend. She lives about 30 miles away. Do you think it would be ok to grab a drink after work with my coworker, just to get to know him better?
2006-07-07 09:03:32 · 14 answers · asked by joe smith 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
if you date a co worker i guarantee you that your business will be all over your plavce of employment, everyone will know how and when you do it, and for how long, if it was good or bad, and if it was good, everyone will want to get in your pants, and if it was bad, then everyone will most likely make fun of you, so weigh the pros and cons , or just quit then date the peron . are you a man or woman, because if youre a man and have a g/f then you said him in the question, your business will definetly be everywhere, and probably get to your girl also.
2006-07-07 12:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by momoko* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can tell your girlfriend....before you do it...and either have her permission or end that relationship...then it is okay. If you hide or lie, it is wrong...what do you have to lose? You can't have your cake and ice cream too. How would you like it if your girlfriend did it to you? If you don't care, then you really don't have a relationship with your girlfriend, you're just killing time.
Exercise some self restraint. You don't have to fall for everything that smiles at you.
Get to know the coworker on a platonic basis, at work, no date! You may not like him as much as you think. In your case, a bird in the hand may be worth more than the "guy in the bush".
2006-07-07 16:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by annettetyler77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like your job?
Don't do it. I would never date people I worked with.
You can ask her what perfume she wears.
Then buy some for your girlfriend.
You are in a relationship. Is it over?
It's a Him?? You on the "down low"?
Poor g/f if you are. She can't ...hmmm.
2006-07-07 17:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never dip your pen in the company ink!! It hardly ever turns out good in the end!
2006-07-07 16:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by wyngeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never dip your pen in the company ink
2006-07-07 21:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by danielle_1ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are gay drop the girl and go for the guy.
2006-07-07 16:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by harryt62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
I did this, when we split up I had to leave my job.
Dating at work is not a good idea.
friends, yes, lovers no.
2006-07-07 16:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by XT rider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him? or is it her? Either way do it. You are just dating the other one, not married.
2006-07-07 16:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Consider this as another perk.
2006-07-07 16:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never but never mix business with pleasure, you will be sorry if you do.
2006-07-07 16:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋