After i got out of a long bad relationship i started seeing this older guy and i tried to confine in him as a friend cause i felt so desperate, needy, and really depressed just LOW so i really started falling for this man but he was hesitant about his feelings, i would call him more, and initiate plans, so all of a sudden he stops callin', coming to see me, taking my calls, just texting me and i'm not a text girl so. It didn't bother me that he had other girl friends heck we used to work together i just wanna know why he blew me off? Maybe i came on 2 strong expected 2 much 2 soon but it happened 3 months ago and i just still feel kinda rejected. I'll accept any answer or advice!! Thnx!!
2006-07-07 08:55:08 · 5 answers · asked by Caryn B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
rebound guys usually never work bc u just looking for the easy way out - maybe ur heart just wasnt ready n u tried a bit to hard to move along fast.
just take it easy - maybe he wasnt good for you (( remember things happen for a reason!! ))
good luck & keep ur head up
2006-07-07 09:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by (( B!TCH )) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you came off a little needy. This guy also sounds like he has game and you were not a challenge for him. Not all guys want it too easy or messy. Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but a desperate or needy woman scares me too. It screams High maintenance on the emotional scale. Hope I'm wrong, you sound like a nice girl in a transition.
2006-07-10 12:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by TomTom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--It definately is a possibility that you came on to strong, some guys like that adventure of a chase, and once its gone theres no excitement left.
-- It also could be that at the time of you having your boyfriend, you were considered taboo, and everyone strides for what they can't have. This guy may have only been interested in one thing, and figured that since you had the boyfriend there would be no emotional attachment just a physical one, but once the emotional attachment was gone from your boyfriends side it would of had to been redirected towards this guy and therefore he split.
--In a nutshell if this guy is blowing you off then hes not worth it, there are other guys out there that are willing to give you the attention you deserve, you shouldn't have to be looking for it!!
2006-07-07 09:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by Just West Coastin..... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one your giving him the wrong signals if your looking to build something new... I mean if you were pursuing me and all I heard about was this and that about your ex and how it didn't work out then hear you want me to fill the void in your heart....i'd run like hell too. What you need to do before ever considering building a new relationship is never poor your emotions about a previous boy toy to the next target or intrest on your list....its a major downer for us. And also you gotta heal girl, you have to get that independence back in your step and quit being clinging
2006-07-07 09:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by christopher_jay_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you may have been a little high maintenance for this guy. Look at it this way, would you respect a guy totally and feel attraction for him if he did everything for you. You sound like you were too easy and needy.
2006-07-10 12:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋