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I enjoy "cybering" with hot girls I've met in chatrooms. I make sure they are hot. I sometimes watch them on their web cam. I've left them see me on my web cam too. Is this considered cheating on my girlfriend? She has no idea I do this.

2006-07-07 08:46:12 · 24 answers · asked by joe smith 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I think there is nothing wrong with it since it's a completely different approach of sex...
Maybe you should try to include your gf in it... first talk to her about it without mentioning yourself, like "what do you think about cybersex..." or some like that, see how she reacts, and go further, if possible.... That could be some fun, lucky you ! ! !
Nothing like sharing and try to enjoy your own experiences with your other half, instead of hiding or stopping it and get frustrated... if there is one thing that needs to be talked true, is sex... Nothing worst than hidden, untold or unsatisfied sex needs, if she loves you, she might not be happy about it, but she should accept it as part of you, even if she doesn't wanna do it, which is fair enough... There is nothing "out of range" in that, you like women, which is good, you like to see them, to watch them, and you like them to see you and watch you... What's wrong with that? She probably won't be happy about you hiding it from her but she might like to do things with you and show them on the net...Who knows?.. you'll never know until you try... Just talk to her, but, for sure, stop hiding it from her...

2006-07-07 09:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lionel 2 · 1 1

One wonders where to draw the line.... Porn for example... If a man watches porn and fantasizes about doing the chick is that cheating?..... However Cybering is slightly different ... it goes beyond fantasy into actual interaction.... I have to side with the ladies on this one It's cheating unless she's okay with it ... You should ask her some girls dont care ...

2006-07-07 15:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0 0

Yes! She would wanna kill you if she would catch you! How would you feel if she would be showing everything to other guys on the Internet! How would you feel if she would be drooling over other guys! I would say, choose who you want, them cyber-girlfriends or a real live girlfriend... the decision isn't that hard to make!

2006-07-07 15:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lorla 4 · 0 0

An old man once told me that "it does not matter where you get your appetite as long as you know what menu you are going to order from." Basically, you can get happy but the gratification in it maybe taking it a little far.

Good Luck!

2006-07-07 15:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by jman 2 · 0 0

If she doesn't know about it, then yes I would consider it cheating. Look at it this way, what if she was "cybering" with guys behind your back, how would you feel?

2006-07-07 15:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by James 2 · 0 0

Yes it IS cheating. do you here the word "sex" in the word "cybersex"?! How hard is that to figure out? Well I guess if you are a cheater, your brain cells disintigrate faster than if you are on pot and you only use 1/3 of your brain, huh?

2006-07-07 15:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lorenia 2 · 0 0

YES, because you go out of your way to look for a particular type of women you are attracted to.well you need to stop doing this before she finds out and kicks you to the curb.

2006-07-07 15:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Amry 3 · 0 0

That is emotional cheating and I hope your girlfriend finds out and puts you out like the trash!

2006-07-07 15:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0 0

Yes . Any time you do something behind your girlfriends back ( with regards to another woman ) it is cheating.

2006-07-07 15:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

LOL, sure, it's not only ok, but I personally reccomend this as a stress releiver. It's safe and free. Enjoy yourself.

2006-07-07 16:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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