He smokes pot and I've asked him to stop. He used to do it 5 times a week and he's cut it down to 2. Should I break up with him (what everyone here in Idaho says to do) or follow my heart and keep dating him? I know he's trying really hard to quit. But I don't know how to handle it. Please help me!
2006-07-07 08:38:51 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a friend like that but it's not pot. Its just an addiction. He's trying his best for you! :) 2 days from 5 is a lot. give him a chance and help him w/ his addiction!
2006-07-07 08:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Hawt Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him some more time. At least he's trying, right? But the thing is, if you knew he smoked even before you guys got together, obviously that wasn't a problem then, so why are you trying to change that now. But again, since he did cut down for you, he does care about you a lot and give him a chance.
2006-07-07 08:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by andhecallsmeFEA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a problem with quiting maybe he needs some help doing it. If he has cut back and is honestly a good guy. i wouldn't break up with him. He was more than likely a smoker when you met him, so asking him to stop is just like telling him you don't like something about him, all of a sudden. Just continue to support him in the quiting process, if he is saying he will never stop and doesn't act like he cares how you feel about it, then you must move on.
2006-07-07 08:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lovinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax sweety its only pot, besides he has stopped a whole lot already, give him a chance. He obviously cares about you enough to go from 5 to 2. Its a bad habit and a hard one to quit. Give him some time and see what happens.
2006-07-07 08:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by grrrrme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pot smoking sucks but it does sound like he's making a genuine effort to quit. I say give him a little more time and then if he's not still improving then go for the exit. Good luck.
2006-07-07 08:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a guy and I don't know how it feels to smoke pot but, I do know how it feels to be alone, I think you should really follow your heart and, if you really love him and if he really loves you then together you can both get out of this problem. God Bless.
2006-07-07 08:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares for you he should stop smoking pot all together. As long as he smokes it he isn't going to want to do anything. In a loving way let him know either the pot or you.
2006-07-07 08:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone has a problem, you can't just give up on them, right? But if he thinks pot is more important than you are, then we have a problem. Relationship is about compromise, and it sounds like he's trying, so as long as it doesn't get in the way of the relationship...
2006-07-07 08:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by absolutebeginner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you will break up with him just because he does pot. You are a peice of work. He must really love you to be trying to do it. Too bad you don't love him enough to accept him as he is. You never know he may meet a girl who smokes pot and find it easier to be with her.
2006-07-07 08:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that the love is sincere and beautful coming form both ways, then keep him and try to get him counceling and go to some type of rehab meetings together so that he can leave those horrid ways. He will need your support and encouragement during these rough times. Now if he doesn't want the professional help and he gets angry that you care so much, leave the ****** he doesn't deserve you!!!
2006-07-07 08:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋