we have been together for two years and we are completly in love. Everyone around us keeps suggesting that we are going to get married. EVEN our parents have asked when the big date is going to be. I know hes the one I am just waiting for him to pop the question.
How do i find out if hes even thinking about it without bluntly asking him?
2006-07-07 08:27:53 · 25 answers · asked by tequieromucho2004 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Have you thought about proposing? It's gutsy, and untraditional, but perhaps he's afraid you'll turn him down... and if you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, why not? Take charge and fall fearlessly to one knee!
2006-07-07 10:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by dragonflyprincess 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about having kids... "How many would you have?" then segway into "What would you name your first boy?" They LOVE that one. Just don't mention having girls.
If he's thought about marriage, he won't have a problem answering you, even if it is sarcasm. If he responds with "What does it matter?" or something to that effect, the tell him you are thinking of the future and what it may hold. THEN bluntly ask him if he's thought of marriage. Sometimes you can't do frills with men, and bluntly asking is the only way. If he's serious about you, he'll get the idea. If he's not, he'll run like a yellow chicken.
2006-07-07 15:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by babefirstclass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. My husband and I went to Middle School together, worked together, had two children together and finally married a month before our third child was born . . . it took 13 years.
Some men feel that being committed to their partner shouldn't mean HAVING to get married. Some women feel the same.
Good luck!
2006-07-07 15:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him choice, on his own. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 5 years, but I'm not ready to marry yet. Putting pressure on will only stress him out and delay things. Think about this, the more MY girlfriend suggests and nags about marriage, the longer she will wait for a ring.
2006-07-07 15:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by pwithers12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be blunt my freinds gilrfreinds after a year of dating aske there man " We are not dating for ever so are we getting married anytime soon" now there married with kids .
2006-07-07 15:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't asked yet then he either doesn't want to marry you anytime soon or doesn't feel you would make a suitable wife. Just cause you love each other doesn't mean you are going to get married. If you try pushing him he'll want out, bank on it!
2006-07-07 15:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by jmdavis333 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him hey it's been 2 years. When do you intend to propose, cos if you don't and we are still together, I will have to start planning for our wedding whether you propose or not.
(If he still doesn't propose, either dump him or prepare for the wedding). Waiting for him to get things going might take you a lifetime and you still might not be married when you turn 50.
2006-07-07 15:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't and I wouldn't. I know you want to marry him but he is going to have to ask you when he is ready. Pressuring him or even bringing it up can drive him away, even though you are both in love.
You could always ask him.
2006-07-07 15:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Bargain Girl of Yore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make want 2 ask the question
2006-07-07 15:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never want to ask a guy to marry you. Let him ask you. He will ask you when he feels that he ready and he will probally want to ask you in a special way so just be patient.
2006-07-07 15:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋