How can I get past this so I can still make him happy. It has been about 15 wks since we've had sex and I know it's bothering him.
2006-07-07 08:26:32 · 6 answers · asked by amanda725_2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel, honey. I am 24 weeks pregnant, too and I can't stand to pass by a mirror. Men just don't understand how we feel. I know that if you don't feel sexy, you just can't get in the mood. Explain to him that he can tell you that you are sexy and beautiful all he wants to, but you are the only one in your skin. Let him rub lotion on your tummy or something. Make him feel like he is doing something nice for you. I wish I could help out more. Just think - we're half way there!!
2006-07-07 08:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I love how the guys answer this one... While pregnant our hormones are completely out of wack... during my first trimester I was a crazy sex fiend.. the second I couldn't stand him touching me I thought i was an ugly cow ... It's completely normal and there's a couple of things you can do .. one is as the guys said the other than intercourse... Two get some reading material on the emotional changes and share it with your hubby ... if this is your first baby he's just as new to it as you are. and most men don't realize this is really the time when we need the compliments and loving attention the most ...(notice i said attention not sex guys). and three.. remind yourself daily... Pregnancy is beautiful... your bringing a miracle into this world and it's a beautiful thing. and most expectant fathers at least the ones i know say there is nothing more beautiful than the woman they love with their child under her heart. Congratulations and many blessings on your expecting family. I hope it works out .- Melanie
2006-07-07 15:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other positions you can use to still have sex. The missionary is OUT, so try lying on your side with him behind you, try sitting on him and having him enter you that way. Imagination is also good.
2006-07-07 15:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by snuffy_muffy_eater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen mama - my wife's orgasm's just kept getting better for her as her pregnancy progressed. You are missing out. After 4 months without sex your husband doesn't care what you look like right now -- just get on top of him.
2006-07-07 15:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Thom E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many positions to try, but if you just don't want to have sex, then provide: handjobs, blow jobs and/or boobie sex...
2006-07-07 15:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral pleasure, and you can use your hand
2006-07-07 15:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋