My boyfriend told his friend to tell me that he wanted to break up...and i hate it when a boy doesnt yell me himself that he wants to break up....but the trick is that the person he told to tell me likes me but he doesnt know that and hes been trying to break me and all my boyfriends up...he told me the same to my last boyfriend but this time he sounded serious, Should i believe him and tell my boyfriend off for what he did or should not believe him and tell him off for what he did??
2006-07-07 08:01:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a complicated situation. If I were you I would try to talk to your bf...it's never good getting a third party in on a break-up. I would tell him that if he did want to break up he should have told you himself and then if he goes "what are you talking about?" you know that the other one was making it all up. Then you know who to be mad at. And if it was your boyfriend and he is a jerk about it when you confront him then by all means yell at him. You really don't know who's at fault until you talk to your boyfriend.
2006-07-07 08:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you tell anyone off, why don't you just ask your boyfriend what his intentions are, to break up or to stay together. Ask him calmly and say you're not upset, just wanting the truth. He'll probably tell you and then you'll have your answer as to who's the bad guy in all this.
By the way, if he really did have someone break up with you for him, he's a complete loser, and you should run away at top speed.
2006-07-07 15:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by soma_0806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I ask your boyfriend if the message were true or not. If you're unsure, that's the only way to be sure, and you'd have the opportunity at that time to tell him you think he's a coward if it is, in fact, true.
2006-07-07 15:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by PuterPrsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur bf if u want 2 break up. if he starts agreeing with you, then the other guy was tellin the truth. if he doesnt agree, then yell at the other guy real bad!
2006-07-07 15:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your boyfriend need to talk and clear things and if he wasnts to break up with you to stop being a Wussy and tell you.
2006-07-07 15:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a wicked tale we weave and nowhere in it did I see anything mentioned about growing up. Give yourself some space to grow before you become so involved in these complicated childrens games.
2006-07-07 15:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by papricka w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not listen to this guy. Talk to your boyfriend and ask him if this is true. If it is, tell him to grow up and in the future tell girls himself.
2006-07-07 15:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by evasive_eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did this before it may well be a lie. You should contact your boyfreind and see what is really up. I think this freind may be a little off.
2006-07-07 15:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo wow interesting. I would investigate a bit, but do you like this guy? seems like he wants to get w/ you! If you like the guy that you think likes you then totally ask him if you want to hang out or something! :) best of luck to you!
2006-07-07 15:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Hawt Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should confront your ex then tell this person that has been around in both of your relationships to mind his business!!!
2006-07-07 15:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋