why don't guys have interest in me?

Question

I don't get it... I gues you could say I have a nice bod and personality... People tell me I'm beautiful but I don't look at myself that way..... but I've never had guys really look all that much. why is that? any tips here?

Answer 1

they look, you just dont notice. walk around with ur chin up n chest out like ur the ish n u'll notice guys lookn

Answer 2

I'm in the same predicament...I never run across anyone who is "smitten" with me....I'm sick of hearing from everyone how pretty I am and how can I not have a boyfriend??? Why am I not married....my answer is that all the men out there are more attracted by the bitches who treat them like scum then by the good girls....but they are the ones who are missing out in the end....one day they will realize that they passed some really awesome women up just because some other girl who is trying to mold them into something that they are not.
I have honestly give up, I dont' even much look at guys that I pass on the street or come across in the workplace anymore....what's the point, the ones that do seem to take an interest are usually married (Scumbags) I don't want nothing to do with those kinds!!!
Wish I had a magical answer for you but there doesn't appear to be one in this case.....just go on living and maybe someday along the way, he will surprise you and come into your life.
Good Luck!

Answer 3

I'm sure they notice you and you're probably not noticing it. First off, stop doubting yourself. I don't know what you look like, but if people have always told you that you're beautiful, you should believe it. Random people don't lie about that sort of thing, so take a good hard look in the mirror and own it. Next, keep up the good personality and be kind and upbeat with people you meet. Also, keep using those brains...when you have beauty, brains and personality, it's a triple threat, and it's a VERY good thing. That makes you every guy's dream gal. Welcome to my world. Now that you're in my world, understand that some people are just going to be intimidated by how beautiful you are. But if you make it easy for them to approach you, chances are they will come running in droves. Out with your girlfriends, smile at a guy you think is cute and make him feel welcome talking to you. If no one's biting still, you can always try to initiate a conversation...you don't say if you're young and in school or out in the working world, but an example of this would be to speak to a guy you think is cute in your class about the subject matter...you can always study together. Or if you're in the working world, go out with coworkers for happy hour. I'm not suggesting dating those coworkers, but some are bound to be married and have brothers or friends they can introduce you to. But the first step is the most important. Own your beauty (and that's different than being concieted just so you know) and feel confident and happy with yourself and everything else will just fall right into place. Good luck!

Answer 4

If these people that compliment you are your friends and family, don't believe what they say. You only want to accept compliments from people who you don't know, this way you know they're actually truthful and not trying to make you feel better about yourself. Also, you mentioned how you don't think you're beautiful, stop saying that. Think positively to yourself and you'll begin to be more confident. Work on your inner being by always saying positive things to yourself inside of your head. When you start saying negative things, like you just did, stop yourself and say something positive. Always think positive!! Also, read up on body language and learn how to communicate using it. For instance, lets say you see a guy walking with his head looking at the floor. Then you see another guy walking with his head up and a smile on his face. Just those 2 signs of body language says SO MUCH about who that person is. Body language is incredibly important. Good luck.

Answer 5

If you keep telling yourself that no one is interested in you they wont be. I would ask yourself a few questions like: where does the kind of guys that i like hang out at? Go to those places. You cant expect people to talk to yo or like you if your always in your house or something. Take risks!! Take risks with your hair, makeup, clothes and talking with people. Im not saying wear red platforms and a pink mini skirts. A risk for you might be something as simple as wearing pink instead of black. Depending on your age too......there are always things within the community that helps other singles meet other singles. Good luck!! keep telling your self that you are attractive and deserve to meet people who are attracted to you and you will!!! Do it for 27 days straight just tell yourself im attrative and i know how to attract other people. After 27 days a part of your brain will begin to belive this statment even if you dont, and it will show in your walk and your talk. People will notice

Answer 6

Seriously now..

It depends. You may be making yourself unapproachable. Work on making eye contact and smiling at guys. It is really easy to do and you don't even have to say anything until they come up to you.

If you get in the habit of doing this to guys you find attractive, guaranteed you will be asked out regularly.

And this is coming from a guy -- i know what works on me.

Answer 7

All the guyes that look @ you and say she is ugly well their looking at the wrong girl. Who cares about what they think you are pretty and thats all that matters. Some one out their has a interesed in you you just have to find that person.

Answer 8

Here's a tip. Dress nice when out, and make eye contact, maybe a little too long, and strike up conversations with those whom you may have an intrest in.

Mike

Answer 9

its all about confidence... men love that. I asked a guy the other night at a resturaunt what he was reading, he handed me the book & we chated for a few. When he got up to leave, I walked over to him (actually he was out the door), and I asked him if he wanted to have dinner sometime. He said yes, I gave him my number. He called the next day, and said he was so flattered. Men don't like to have it all on their shoulders, step up sometimes and act like you own the place. Confidence IS sexy!

Answer 10

it seems to me that the reason guys "dont look all that much" is because we can tell when a girl is confident in herself. there is nothing more attractive than someone who knows what she wants and knows how to get it. Just believe in yourself and carry yourself in a manner in which your the only girl in the room. Good luck.

Answer 11

It is difficult to answer your question with the information provided.

How old are you?
Why do you not look at yourself as a beautiful person?
Do you have a photo you are willing to show?
What is your personality like?