2006-07-07 07:55:42 · 22 answers · asked by Bryan H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Interrogation. With torture.
2006-07-07 07:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, geez! If you're asking yourself that question. You may already have the answer ... or maybe your just really insecure?
I hate to contribute to insecurities - but here goes ...
Check her cellphone for unknown numbers that are called frequently and for long periods of time. If she has voice mail at work - try to get her passcode into the system and listen to her messages there (usually, all cheating is done through work) ... if she has her own car ... get in there one day and do come digging around ... surprise her for lunch at work one day or stop by when she gets off work and follow her to see where she goes ... on the weekends, if she has a tendancy to turn off her phone or keep it silent .. I'd check into why ... is she buying new clothes? Lingerie? Suddenly very concerned with her appearance? Begining to make excuses as to why she'll be home late? Spending more time with "the girls"?
Don't ask me how I know this ....
2006-07-07 15:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by tinthelbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never "know" unless you catch her in the act. It sounds like you've got suspicions so maybe talk it out with her tell her why your suspicious. Don't sneak around checking up on her, be blunt. Remember there is something more important than her cheating going on, its a trust issue that has to be resolved if you guys are going to make it. And from experience you need to find out as soon as possible. Unless you really don't want to know.
2006-07-07 14:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you walk in on her, your not going to catch her. Women are like cats, they cover their s_h_i_t. Men aren't clever enough to catch their wife cheating. They don't know the tricks to setting someone up like women do. When a women even thinks her man is cheating, she will set up a trap as a cat would with a mouse and just wait for him to try and get his way out. The end result of a mouse getting out of a cats trap is never good.
2006-07-07 15:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry to say but im married with two kids and i before marrige was always a cheeter it really depends on her but makinging her mad will make her tell example he the other man makes her feel special and even if hes married hes telling her hes unhappy tell her that a very upset woman called your home today without mentioning names but knew her name and saidshe knows herhusband is havin a affair and you too want to know whats going on if that dont work follow her one day not your car.good luck and remember pay back is a ***** also say his wife mentioned they both have herpes.ha! shell stop seeing him.
2006-07-07 15:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only YOU know the answer and dont want to say it. If you dont know its not hard to find out just invest some energy as a detective and some of your time. Tell her you going to fishing, and follow her. Randomly go home from your work early, go to her work place. Surprise visit her unexpectedly just to show how much your into her, and if you catch her....... isnt that what u wanted?
2006-07-07 15:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very sad question. I have been married twice and I absolutely, positively trust my current and ex. If you married a woman of honor and character, she will NEVER cheat on you.
2006-07-07 15:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should just come out and ask her. Trust her answer. However, if there are "signs" (coming home late, new perfrume, going to the gym more often, new interests, etc.) then you may have a problem. I wish you luck and much love.
2006-07-07 15:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by Pam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should sit down and explain to her that you have suspicions that your not accusing her but you want the truth and if it is true that your going to put an end to either the cheating or to the marriage i promise it'll stop
2006-07-07 15:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hide small tape recorders that can pick up phone conversations....when you run out to the store or whatever, turn it on.....she will take advantage of the few minutes "free time" to call the bastard...........I guarantee you WILL bust her this way...try it for a few weeks.....IT WORKS!
2006-07-07 15:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check her cell phone, but chances are if she is, she'll have another phone you don't know about. You can pull her phone bills to... can't you have a friend follow her for a day or two? I'm sorry if she is, thats sad. follow your gut.
2006-07-07 14:58:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋