2006-07-07 07:54:46 · 24 answers · asked by krhines31 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her make her own decision. Eventually she'll break up with the guy. but most likely just find another peckerhead to be with. Go find another girl.
2006-07-07 07:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nicholas W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry man... you can't... If you can't convince someone to change the first time you argue with them, give up. That means they'll only change once they find out their own mistake.
But you should ask yourself: Do you really want to be with a woman who makes bad desicions with men? Maybe she has a low self esteem.
You'll either have to wait her out or find a girl who appreciates herself and respects what a nice guy has to offer. Trust me, they're out there.
The best thing you can do for that woman is be her support. Don't ridicule her for having a bad choice in men, that will only make her think she's inferior. If you want to put her down, keep your mouth shut, support her when you can, but dont give out flattery. This means you'll have a lot of silence between you two, but she'll know what you're feeling when you say nothing.
2006-07-07 07:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Grant K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You're setting yourself up for a heartbreak if you keep trying. Unless you can start treating her like dirt, you have no chance with her at all. She's into guys that treat her like crap and it's likely that's all she'll ever be attracted to. I know this type of woman well and have thought the same thing your asking now. You HAVE to move on and forget about this one. Sucks to hear it, but that's the reality of it.
If you're a nice guy, you need to find a nice girl.
2006-07-07 08:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by T.A. Rossi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
sounds like you're interested in engaging in a little brainwashing
Just because you're a nice guy doesn't mean you are the guy for her... I don't think you can just make somebody switch brands like that. If this broad had any interest in nice guys, you wouldn't be dangling from the friend ladder, dude. If she is to ever realize nice guys are the thing for her, it'll be a realization she comes to on her own, and not because of subversive influence...
Don't get yourself into a situation where she defines you as a jerk.
2006-07-07 08:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by nowyermessingwithasonofabitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never happens. She'll always go back to or find another abusive loser to be with. That is why there are ugly or plain girls, so the nice guy will have a chance.
HA! All of the women that responded say to keep trying and to be patient. All of the guys say to forget about it. I think the guys have it right.
2006-07-07 07:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience here, it is not an easy thing to do. She may feel as though the experiences and things that have been said to her are true. The best advice I can give to you is to constantly reassure her. It will take time to heal those old wonds. Be understanding of the life she has led and the hurt she has been dealt. Patience is the key and good guys do win in the end. Good luck.
2006-07-07 07:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by blondie7795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont push it.. u aid her through it but u cant do it 4 her cuz at the end of the day she's goin 2 do wutever heart guides her 2 do and as long as ur their 4 her the way she needs u 2 be as her friend and support she will appreciate u more than u can ever imagine.. let it flow bcuz as sweet as u seem she'll b sure 2 open her eyes 2 the treasure of a man that is rite in front of her
2006-07-07 07:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them run over you. Be strong, have an oppinion, don't answer every call but still sound interested. Women are attracted generally to bad boys even though they are not good for them. If you have a good heart, bend when you have to, but stand your ground, you have a way better chance than the average bad boy.
2006-07-07 08:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 09:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience
2006-07-07 07:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by socalgrrrl05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋