2006-07-07 07:50:03 · 25 answers · asked by sweetestcandy54 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It just doesn't work that way. Man, are you ever misguided. The best chance you have to get him to fall in love with you is this: when he tries to have sex with you, refuse his advances and tell him you are waiting for marriage.
2006-07-07 07:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by lefty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got it all backwards. I agree with Potski that love is not created through sex, but an expression of it.
Many sexual relationships are based on lust, not love. In these relationships, people are selfishly satisfying their own desires and basically using the other person to do it. If you truly love a person you would never take advantage of that person or try to use that person to gratify your own desires. In the words of my friend from Maine, "You can't get there from here." It is difficult to go from a relationship where you are using each other to one where you are giving to each other.
Save the sex for when you're married and you have a deeper relationship with that person than just lust. Trying to make a guy fall in love with you simply by having sex with him is degrading and ultimately very unsatisfying.
2006-07-07 10:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't sweetie. You can't make him love you through anything, and sex will just make the pain worse if he rejects you.
You deserve to be really loved, not just paid attention to, but really loved. Sex might get you attention for a while, but in the long run it will hurt worse than it does now. I know it seems like this is the worst possible pain, but it really can get worse. You don't need to trick a man into loving you, there is one out there who will love you just for being you. I know you don't believe me right now, but it is true.
I am sorry you are in this situation, and sorry your heart is not obeying you right now. I wish there was a way to make it better. Time will heal all. God bless and have a wonderful life.
2006-07-07 12:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne- LEAVES Military Ministry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not the answer. You can date and get to know him first. Then be sure to use a condon etc if you decide you want sex. But that will not keep him from going elsewhere. There's alot more to a relationship. Pem
2006-07-07 08:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really misinformed. Having sex with any person is NOT the way to make them love you. In fact, in most cases, it is exactly the OPPOSITE that will happen.
2006-07-07 07:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do WHAT he wants WHEN he wants and don't think about yourself or your pride at all. He should be allowed to defile you and degrade you by doing all sorts of kinky stuff he sees in porn flicks. Let him treat you like a piece of meat and don't make him get a towel when it's over. That should do it. He will love you deeply and truly.
2006-07-14 06:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not a way to create love, but an expression of it
2006-07-07 07:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Potski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you feel that you have no good qualities and you are only good for sex. do you feel that a guy wont love you for you? you should discover "YOU" before starting a relationship or you will never be happy (or find love)
good luck xo
2006-07-07 08:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by zoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just wasting your time. sex should be the last thing to do with him not the first to impress him, he must like or love you first, if he doest there are so many guy out there go get yourself one that loves you.
2006-07-07 08:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with nearly every answer prior to mine. You need to keep a man at bay otherwise he'll walk over you. I've seen it all before.
2006-07-07 07:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Hiding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋