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we go to school together and he loves me to death. our parents dont approve of it. that is why we cant date but we talk over email everyday.
it is really hard to tell who loves who more b/c he is so amazing. what can i do about this?
2006-07-07 07:46:39 · 21 answers · asked by Watermelon Punch 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry about the link. it got screwed up
2006-07-07 07:57:31 · update #1
oh my gosh i have the same problem as you!! yeah pretty much i stay longer after school to be around him, when i go to the library i call him and he meets me there, same with the movies. but keep trying with your parents, the sooner they don't mind (as long as they don't find out!!) the happier you'll both be! <3
2006-07-07 07:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents can be irrational sometimes, but they can also be trying to help you out. I suggest at least trying to have a civil conversation with them about your boyfriend. There's really not much you can do about it... but consider what would happen if you got married and your parents still didn't like him. Do you think that would be comfortable for him?
If you do anything behind your parent's back its just going to make them more angry at you. I think it would be better to try and prove to them that he's a good guy by having your two families get together for dinner or something. Expose them to him.
2006-07-07 07:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Grant K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. You have a nice flirting relationship right now that you both seem to enjoy. Keep it at that. Why try to force "Love" into it.
Besides, if BOTH sets of parents do not approve, I'd respect their wishes and don't date. You might think they are unfair, don't understand, cruel and are doing this just to be mean - but it's because they were young once themselves and they do know what you are going through and they are trying to protect you. Trust them.
2006-07-07 07:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by Nemo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are two types of love. There is the worlds love, and God's love. The worlds love uses sayings like love at first sight, falling in love, etc. It can also be described as "passionate lust". Really fits doesn't it? But really now, God's love means that you would do absoultely anything for that person, even if it means your life. Now it isn't, you want to impress that person so you'll do anything. It's your in a tough situation and it's his life or yours. You would vonlunteer. That's TRUE love. Not any of that "passionate lust" stuff.
Now if you WOULD do anything for him, or vice versa, then it is true love and you guys just need to explain that to your parents. But if it is "passionate lust" where everything is lovey dovey, then you just need to stay as friends.
2006-07-07 07:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by nobody is home 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it nice and slow.
Even if you don't want to admit it, your parents probably know you better than you know yourself. They want to protect you from getting hurt and probably don't approve because you are so young. Live your life a little, getting tied down so young could make you feel like you have regrets later in life.
2006-07-07 07:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kelli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hehe so I clicked on the link a million times and was confused by everyone elses answer! Apparently no one else clicked on it! Sorry but you can't date me... I'm a girl and I'm taken! But this was funny!
2006-07-07 07:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by granolaperson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw your parents and date him without their knowlege. Say you're going to the mall and meet him there. Just do stuff like that.
2006-07-07 07:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Alyx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you really love this guy, then try to be with him every chance you get. say you have to stay after school and hang out with him, and just stuff like that.
2006-07-07 07:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents you have your own life and you can do what you want with it. It's not up to them to decide your future.
2006-07-07 07:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by heya 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off tell you parents you have to grow up sometime and will want a boyfriend eventually.
2006-07-07 07:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋