went out 1.5 months. incredible chemistry. told her something about my past she didn't like & things cool down a bit. tried preventing fire from extinguishing but i burned house down by trying to hard. she said she liked me a lot, that timing was not good, that love (if meant to b) will come bck again, & that I came 2 her life in a special way & someday we were going to find out why. kept trying hard (by sending her flowers, letters, etc) ‘til she texted “there is no ‘us’” & that she was not intrested in any type of relationship cuz there were many things going on in her life. my guess is I prbably asphyxiated her. she didnt answer my last ph call (1.5 m ago). called her again a wk ago 2 c whether she was interested in grabbing a cup of coffee. no luck. should I give up? would it help if I send her a letter saying dat I screwed up by pushing 2 hard cuz I really thought she was special and circumstances at the moment “forced” me to try getting answers (ws considering job in other city)?
2006-07-07 07:43:45 · 6 answers · asked by mx375 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For now, let it go...let her be the one to initiate contact if that is to happen...apparently she's so turned off by your pushing her, that she went from "not interested right now" to "get out of my life forever you creep"....at least you realize you went overboard, keep that in mind with regard to future relationships...don't smother...smothering can take something that had potential and turn it into "no way in h*ll"...
Sorry this occured...it's ROUGH to dig someone and not have them feel the same about you...been there (too many times)...go on with your life and what's best for you, but leave her be...if she wants you in her life, she'll let you know...
2006-07-07 07:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should lay low for a little while. She may be feeling a little suffocated. I don't know if it was something you said or did that pushed her away. Or if it actually is that she just has too much going on in her life. But, for the mean time... just give her some space.
You don't want to keep pushing because you might end up getting on her nerves. And she could end up being so annoyed by you that she never wants to deal with you.
Hopefully, within a little time she will realize that you are a sweet guy. It may take her dealing with an a$$ hole or two to come to that conclusion. But, then she will be able to appreciate you.
2006-07-07 07:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep...it means I'm not interested. If it was that good...you'd still be together. Leave her alone...it sounds like you're trying to hard. Two things will happen if you leave her alone: you'll move on without her, or she'll realize how much she misses having you around and come back. It's a win- win situation.
2006-07-07 07:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by green is clean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let it go. She isn't interested. They say if you love something you should set it free and if it comes back it's for keeps. So if you love her, set her free and if she comes back then you know shes yours.
2006-07-07 07:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TottaLy
2006-07-07 07:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by poopsy1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all mean "I quit".
2006-07-07 07:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋