I mean of course they can show you by a kiss or something, but what other ways besides words and kisses can they show it. I have heard of many ways but I have yet to only see one sign that i mean something to her. She kissed my neck several times before she had to leave me, and that is a sign that she wants me. I just want to know if there are other signs of lvoe that she could show me. Real signs that prove that she does in fact love me.
2006-07-07 07:35:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she does love you but in her own way. Everybody is different and everybody shows emotions in different ways. Just trust her when she says that she does
2006-07-07 07:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Duckie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different people express and receive indications of love in different ways. For a lasting relationship, it's a good idea to work this out. If your girlfriend sees flowers as a compelling expression of love, but you're helping her with errands you might have a problem. Make sure that you understand what she feels is an appropriate expression of love and that she knows what works for you.
the usual categories are
1) gifts (flowers, candy, etc.)
2) verbal expression
3) doing things for each other (cooking dinner, doing the taxes, etc.)
4) touching
Often the currency of expression is determined by how someone's parents showed affection. Each person is different though. Take some time to find out because it would be sad if you thought you were expressing love, but she wasn't "hearing" it.
2006-07-07 07:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by cuharrison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk about long-term goals...like what she wants in life. If she says "we" or "us" while talking about these things, or has you in the picture, then you know she's planning on staying with you...possibly marrying you. Love has over 1 million and 1 ways of presenting itself.... it can be bringing you soup and a movie when you're sick, comforting you when you're sad, making you laugh just to see you smile, getting you little gifts for no reason--- sooooo many ways. But, you should really tell her some time, in an intimate setting, that you've fallen for her. I can remember when my boyfriend (now of 5 years) told me he loved me but was absolutely terrified I didn't love him. He told me he loved me the first time he met me--- which I think is impossible but there must be some truth behind it because we've been together for all this time! Just tell her how you feel, and she'll tell you her feelings...it's what we do, we don't just say "Oh that's nice" when someone tells us "I love you". She'll either smile and tell you she loves you too, or she'll say "whoah partner, slow down.... we hardly know each other." It's a risk that comes with Loving someone, that's what makes love so exciting, so amazing, so absolutely enrapturing--- because it is the biggest risk in your life, you'll ever take.
2006-07-07 07:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by chickingirl19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she really listen to you? Remember things that are important to you? Does she write you love notes or emails? Does she touch you when she talks to you? Those are some signs. If she is easily distracted when you talk to her, if she forgets things that you tell her and if she doesn't make good eye contact or touch you a few times a day, those would be clues you aren't all that to her.
2006-07-07 07:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by kraftygirl_art 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy can tell if his girlfriend really loves them if their together a long time. Also if the relationship stays passionate. then his girlfriend really loves. Also if she doesn't want to do nothing else but be with him(her boyfriend)
2006-07-07 07:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by diamonds-are-forever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude relax...its not that serious! If you guys speand most of the time together. She umm tells you she does. Actions louder than words. Words to the wise dont be too clingy...gross especially on a dude!
2006-07-07 07:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing a womans mind...that would be a medical breakthrew lol na but uh if she comes home to you every night that would say alot ...actions speak louder than words bro.
2006-07-07 07:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jason D H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you pretty much answered this question yourself. If you are questioning her love for you, don't you think there is a problem somewhere. Love is natural and you can tell when someone loves you. If you have to question that love, I would think twice about who you are really with.
2006-07-07 07:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she love's you she will be kind, patient, and accept you for your short comings. Love is understanding and unconditional. You feel good and secure around her. When she's away from you, you don't worry about if she's being loyal to you.
2006-07-07 07:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by In Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you are drunk one day and say I love you, I really really love you, do you love and see what she says. If she does not say she loves you then pretend the next day like you don't remember what happen. If she say she loves you then the next day she will ask you if you remember what you said last night. say yeah I do and she will say did you mean it, say I don't know, do you love me.
2006-07-07 07:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋