we have sex and spend all of our time together. he's not seeing anyone else on the side and neither am I. If i did he would consider this cheating! yet he says we're not in a relationship am i wasting my time?
2006-07-07 07:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by milkchclt4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cut off the benefits, and see how he reacts. Sounds like the old story Why buy the cow if the milk is free?!!!
Have respect for yourself!!!
2006-07-07 07:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by icey_76431 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can only find out of you ask. Sit down with dude and ask him what the future holds. Tell him you want more in the relationship i.e commitment and see how that goes. If you sit around and wait for him to commit- he may not. He's already having sex- no offense so he may feel he doesn't need to do anything else. If he doesn't like it then tough- you have to look out for yourself. so good luck.
2006-07-07 14:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't you already gave him the candy, why should he. Just because you are having sex doesn't mean he should be with you. He not sleeping with anyone else because he gets what he needs from you, without the hassle of a relationship. He won, you are just a good friend with benifits (sorry to say) but you are. Stop having sex with him and see what happens. Then you will know.
2006-07-07 14:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy wants to have sex with you all the time, does not want you to see other people but still won't commit to you...this guy is using you and you need to re-evaluate your relationship with him. If you are not in a relationship then go out and see whomever you want. if he puts up a fuss, tell him to commit or step off. You deserve better. Stop wasting your time.
2006-07-07 14:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, rule of thumb about men in general.... We want what we can not have, yet we don't want what we do have. its the hunt that drives us until we come to our senses and drink ourselves retarded for all the good women we hurt or left behind in the past.... Trust me, its true...then we take the time to aspire to a higher level of beings rather than just creatures looking to get a little rub on the penis... Eventully and this can happen for men early in life or never... but eventully we come to the conclusion that sex is meaningless unless your having sex with someone that means everything to you. So you can't make him, you can only help him to make him possibley later.
2006-07-07 14:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by christopher_jay_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol its gonna be hard now cuz u already gave it up now he has nothing lol..guys do this...they sleep with u and then want no commitment what so ever...they get what they want and they dont have to deal with all that couple stuff.... u need to tell him ur tired of just sex....u want something more and if he doesnt agree then its time to lose him and move on with life...it sounds like hes a bit controlling too and tell him he doesnt get those rights unless hes a boyfriend otherwise if ur gonna stay this way u guys can have sex and see whoever u want u need to tell him this so he knows ur not afraid to be assertive!
2006-07-07 14:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off, and just be friends. See if he hangs around then. If not, it is totally physical and he is just using you. You can't MAKE someone commit, it doesn't work that way.
2006-07-07 14:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are! you can not make a guy commit to you.I would find somebody who loves you and wants to be with and u only.
2006-07-07 14:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way. Are you dumb? If he can get the milk for free why pay for the cow.
2006-07-07 14:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
green eyed girl pretty much nailed it here.
2006-07-07 14:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋