I like a guy who's going out with someone else and he likes me, and he and his girlfriend are having problems. What do I do?
2006-07-07 07:31:36 · 25 answers · asked by Alyx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like a guy who's going out with someone else and he likes me, and he and his girlfriend are having problems. He knows I like him too. What do I do?
2006-07-08 07:40:04 · update #1
then you wait baby girl. until he's officially available. let him come to you. don't go chase just yet.
2006-07-07 07:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything to get in between them. It will only cause you more problems and drama. You may end up bringing them closer together because of the crap they'll be going through to deal with everyone trying to get in between. It seems like he's confused about his gf and you so don't make it worse because you might end up getting pushed aside anyways. Plus, if he likes you while he has a girlfriend (regardless of problems) who is to say he won't have a wandering eye when he's with you? Just wait out the relationship and if he approaches you, go for it. If not, move on.
2006-07-07 14:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out and let their relationship run its course. Treat others as you'd like to be treated...if you wouldn't want someone making a move on your boyfriend, don't be the one to make a move on someone else's boyfriend (besides, if he'd dump her to be with you, then he'd dump you to be with someone else)...
Focus on guys who are available...if this guy becomes available, then he's fair game...consider anyone in a relationship "off limits"...
2006-07-07 14:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a while. If they are really having some serious problems they can't fix, they'll probably split, but you don't want to be rebound girl, and even if you weren't, could you trust that he wouldn't like another girl once you and him got together?
2006-07-07 14:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Trixi Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait
2006-07-07 14:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by drummer4justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the breakup, which will happen. Remember that he broke up with someone, so it may happen to you too. You also don't want to be seen as a "barracuda" or a "poacher", a woman who takes another womans man.
2006-07-07 14:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not even go there. No matter what problems he and his girl are having, he is still with her, not you. You need to find someone with no strings attached. Good Luck!
2006-07-07 14:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away specially if it's a friends guy. Otherwise wait to see what happens. Don't get stuck being the third wheel.
2006-07-07 14:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by lrybio2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't it stink!!!? I mean like okay for me he was taken by myy friend. GOosh was that wacky.............. if you are kinda young then wait cause usally the break up or just find someone else. Cause once you get to know them well, you might want to dump them on your first date
2006-07-07 14:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by hahaha=] shaa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would probably leave the guy alone and stop being a brainless *****,,He has a gf Back off
2006-07-07 14:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he is no longer with someone to make your move. If you hook up with him while he is still with this girl, then that's cheating and if he will cheat on one girl to be with you, what's to say he wouldn't cheat on you to be with some one else. If it was ment to be, it will be worth the wait.
2006-07-07 14:34:56 · answer #11 · answered by hope m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋