to tell you the truth she was probably a little shocked to catch you having sex with someone and so she made you suffer. She wasn't expecting that. she haters her cause the attention that she usually got from you you are giving to her now so that's why when around her you should just not be so affectionate to her. Like hold her hand but dont' kiss her.
2006-07-07 07:31:53
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answered by oaklandolee 4
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Your little sister probably believes you should be saving yourself for your wife. And there is something to that. When you have sex, you make a permanent change in your relationship. If you break up after that, you leave a bit of yourself with your partner and vice versa.
In an ideal world, what happens is you tie up all the loose ends with your parents and make the shift from them being the most important in your life, to your partner being the most important, then you make a permanent commitment with your partner, and after that you become one in a physical sense(1).
So the sensible thing to do is indeed to stay platonic at very least until you are sure you want a permanent relationship (i.e. are engaged to be married).
Now, your situation is complicated by the fact that the horse has already gotten out of the barn, so to speak. Merely shutting the door will not be enough. It may even do more harm than good. What you need to do is get that horse back in the barn.
Which while impossible humanly speaking, is possible with God(2). Discuss the matter with Him, settle your issues with Him, put them behind you(3). He has already done everything needed from His end for you to have a clean slate(4). All you have to do is trust in what He has done(5) and move forward with your life.
And if you've really done this in good faith, then you really will have a new life(6): a new heart(7), a new mind(8), new desires(9), new actions(10), a new love(11) free of lust(12). And obviously if you decide to do this, you'll also want to encourage your girlfriend to do the same.
It sounds like you are pretty independent already, have your own place, so you could then make plans to get married, and after that start your sexual relationship over again. Something to think about.
May God bless you and keep you
2006-07-07 07:56:05
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answered by songkaila 4
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Probably the same problems my brothers had with my husband when we frist got together she doesnt want to share her big brother your hers and she doesnt want any other girl taking her attention...I can almost bet you and she are very close and she looks up to you greatly and you are very protective of her, How do I know? well I'm the same way with my lil brothers it took them years to adjust to my husband one of brothers even went as far as claiming my husband broke his ribs and blacked his eye so that I would leave him but I was standing there at the moment my husband supposadly did all this he just wanted the man out of my life so he didnt have to share me....Try going to lunch with your sister alone and explaining to her no matter what woman you choose to be with she will always be the special girl in your life and that no one can take that away from her but also respect her feelings maybe she has a bad feeling about this specific gf and doesnt want her big bro hurt...Just keep your eyes peeled and Good Luck
2006-07-07 07:36:32
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answered by shell b 3
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attempt chatting with her, ask her what's bothering her. i do not opt to offend absolutely everyone and that i'm not the following to guage, I even do not comprehend what your relatives existence is like, yet from this question curiously as in case your mom isn't doing her pastime. it isn't your pastime to take care of your sister. i'd recommend you to attempt to make certain what's incorrect and then attempt to assist her. also, the actual undeniable actuality that she is coming to you should advise she is extra delicate with you, or some thing interior her is scaring her far out of your mom, possibly. reliable success, and also you sound like an really reliable older brother. Gina
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answered by ? 4
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well you need to put your foot down, i know shes family but the way she is acting is too imature, who is she to call the shots at your house, if i were you i would take the key back or better yet change the locks, if shes gonna be acting like that then she dosnt need to be around you. and now about her not liking your gf, who cares what she thinks, you are the one thats with her not her. does she make you happy, if she does then your sister should be happy for you. you need to have a big talk with her asap and let her know that he behavior is just not acceptable and if she continues to act like such a like b i t c h then she is not welcome at your house anymore. oh yeah and its very abvious that she is jealous of your gf. my bf's lil sis didnt like me at first and later on she admited that she was jealous of me. good luck!
2006-07-07 07:39:09
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answered by 2_good_2_be_true;) 4
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she was probably trying to protect her big Brother.like an over protective parent or my dad.
2006-07-07 07:34:46
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answered by jackie 1
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she jealous and might think she losing her borther have a talk with her or do something with her
2006-07-07 07:51:35
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answered by Beatifulhunnie1984 3
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Dude give up she will always win.
2006-07-07 07:32:40
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answered by genocyber69 3
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I would say she never realized that you are not a little kid anymore.. BTW forgive me but.... LOLLLOLLOLOLOLOLOOL That is hilarious.........
2006-07-07 07:34:24
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answered by sparrownightmare@verizon.net 2
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i'm outa messages, email me
cassilennard@yahoo.com
2006-07-07 10:17:45
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answered by Anonymous
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she jealous
2006-07-07 07:30:03
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answered by Anonymous
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