I keep meeting men who are not really into me at all. I know sex is the only thing they care about but I fall for the same kind of guy all the time what can I do to break this trend?
2006-07-07 07:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by charlotte e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First allow yourself to heal before jumping into another relationship. Place your standards high. Put sex on the back burner, let him wine and dine you Love yourself first, get a makeover buy something sexy. Say I'm a Queen and I need a King. Be Classy, Sassy not easy. See what he has to offer You!
2006-07-07 07:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by Honey X 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well a very easy trick is not give them sex right away. If you dont sleep with them right away the bad ones who only want that will leave and the good ones will stay. Simple. Of course there will be a few guys who will stick around that are in the middle, but who knows what they are doing on the side. You have to try to discern their intentions. But remember sex was not intended for strangers- thats why it hurts so much to follow this pattern. Try your best to wait and a better man will come along. Another thing I have tried and this is even harder is to take time off from dating. Just work on whatever it is that you have going on that makes you seek out a bad match. ie... past experiences, parental relationships, something inside you thinks these men are good for you or changeable. Best of luck
2006-07-07 07:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont just go for any guy and dont just flirt etc. Get to know them, chat to them, show them that you want to be the kind of girlfriend that they can have a laugh with and generally get along with. Dont make your relationship simply physical. Good luck
2006-07-07 07:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time 2 get 2 knw the guy first.not all guys just want sex,go out few times and see if hes genuine.
2006-07-07 07:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by tony k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start relationship in a platonic fashion. after the person gets to know you and you get to know them as friends, then and only then do you start thinking about them in a romantic sense. I think this way you are least likely to be used.
2006-07-07 07:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you choose is not your problem; it is the symptom of your problem.
Your issue is your self esteem. You under-value who you are and what you have to offer. You are "selling yourself to the highest bidder" rather than expecting that you will be honored, adored and appreciated.
If you can't see yourself as valuable; no on else will either!
2006-07-07 07:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHH I too have been there...first, Im not talking about money but demand what your worth as a person....nothing less will do. Be honest about what you want and remember dont try to change anyone no lost puppy syndrome!!!!
2006-07-07 07:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jo CB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think why u keep falling for that type, is itthe sex too,?or mayb u think little of urself.u deserve more so go for better
2006-07-07 07:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by herberto48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time pick a total opposite and try to get along!
2006-07-07 07:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are attracted to them ...end of story . you attract what you like...if want a nice guy, you will meet one.
ALSO, CLOSE YOUR LEGS... stop being so easy and then maybe they;ll stick around
2006-07-07 07:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋