In 4 years when your daughter is starting her elementary education. She will be able to absorb life better through the edition of a newborn. Children get along better with a slight age gap. At the same time you will have more free time and the experience to raise your second child.
2006-07-07 07:06:04
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answered by Timothy Summer 3
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Whenever you feel as though you are ready. I had my second daughter when my first daughter was just 1. My husband and I were both ready and it's what I wanted. My second daughter is now 5 months and I would get pregnant again if I wanted to. I learned that it doesn't matter what family members think or what they want you to do; it is your life. If you and your spouse want to have a million children back to back then go ahead. Live life and be happy! My only advice is that if you aren't financially stable or can give the needed time to another baby, then you shouldn't try for another one. Also, I think it is better to have your children closer together than one being 9 and the other being 2; kids don't tend to get along with that transition after being the only child for so long. Good luck!!!
2006-07-07 08:10:29
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answered by llsexychick16 2
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when she is 3 1/2
2006-07-07 06:55:54
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answered by babygul 2
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This is about the right time for you and your other half to start trying for another baby.. by the time you get pregnant and after the 9-10 months of pregnancy, your daughter will be around 3 1/2 to 4 years old! Perfect timing and GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-07 07:03:57
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answered by Nick's Mom 3
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Whenever you and your spouse are ready in all aspects of life. I had my second child when my daughter was weeks away from turing 3. Its hard, but my oldest LOVES her sister and vice versa. Your daughter will get a little jealous with it going from just the three of you to a new baby that gets loads of attention. I let my daughter join in on feedings and diaper changes. I made her feel like a very important part of caring for her sister. She is now going on 4 and the baby is 8 going on 9 months. The oldest girl is very good at "taking care" of her little sister. She "watches" her for me all the time. She even tells me when her baby sis is putting something in her mouth. For people that read these answers, I never leave my two children alone together. I'm always watching them, but try to hide so my oldest thinks she is taking care of the baby. It's so cute watching her try to get the baby to interact and play with baby dolls and such.
2006-07-07 07:21:57
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answered by jen 2
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When ever your ready. Me and my husband were trying for another child a month before my daughter turned 2. And we got our wish. 2 or 3 years difference in your children isn't bad. I'd prefer for my children to be closer in age then 5 or more years.
2006-07-07 06:57:13
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answered by lillady 4
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The books say that children should be 3 years apart. The reason they say this is, you can focus on that one child for 3 years, and that is how long it takes a child's mind to make all the connections.
The real answer can only be known by you. If you can afford it, and your are ready for another one, then do it. Kids are great, and bring so much joy and fun to a world that needs it.
2006-07-07 06:57:12
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answered by natex14 4
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i love kids and i think that you should have them about the same age it is much better they are closer to each other when they are bought the same age i have a 19 month old and a 8 month old...it is very hard though but its good for the kids my boys are so close to each other..so whenever you are ready remember how long you will be preg. by then your other baby will be what 3yrs and something plus the time it takes to conceive
2006-07-07 07:31:07
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answered by cutietraci87 2
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in 25 years
2006-07-07 06:57:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Whenever you feel ready. I just suggest it's when she's 3 or older to make sure she won't handle the baby in a harmful way.
2006-07-07 06:57:51
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answered by Anonymous
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