how do i come out and tell him how i fell
2006-07-07 06:48:29 · 18 answers · asked by Dae Dae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have to tread carefully with your words. It was harder for him to be open about his true self than this will be for you. But you owe it to yourself and to your brother to be honest about how you feel. Maybe sitting down with him and talking about it will make it easier for you. If you aren't opposed to it, Pray that God will give you the right word for when you talk to him and it'll be okay. Just remember to be aware of how your words might affect HIS feelings when you are telling him about YOUR feelings. Good luck!
2006-07-07 07:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
He is still your brother, if your're not comfortable around him just have a chat with him and tell him how you feel. Just don't try and change him. If it's who he is, it's who he is. You can't go through your entire life being uncomfortable around your brother, because no matter how glossy his lips become or how many dresses he buys, he will always be your brother. Good Luck.
2006-07-07 13:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by Stoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you take him somewhere that nobody is listening and then you might take a while but just step up to the plate and get it over you might fell a whole lot better that's all i can tell you homie!!
2006-07-07 13:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by sexi_niecy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and let him know how you feel. But at the same time, he's still your brother, so love hin none the less. He'll need all the support that he can get if he chooses this lifestyle.
2006-07-07 13:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just going to take you time to accept what he is now, just let him be, if he is happy with how he is you should be with him, I can't imagine how hard it could be if that happens to me with my brothers but in this situation and every situation you have to be with your bro, that's the reason why you are brother and sister.
2006-07-07 13:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend time around him in a comfortable setting. Talk to him and try to understand him for who he is. He'll always be your brother, so you're going to have to accept him or lose him.
2006-07-07 13:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by bigtony615 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk with him, somewhere private. Tell him how you feeel, but don't close the door on his feelings. You need to know why he is doing this--what he needs and feels.
Don't be afraid to ask a lot of questions, so you can understand what's going on!!
He needs to find a way to be considerate of your feelings, but you need to find a way to be supportive of who he is.
2006-07-07 13:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by Torero In Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.. ask him why he chooses to dress this way.. you'll find out it is just an expression of how he feels.. love your brother for who he is.. not what he is..
2006-07-07 13:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sorcha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your brother the truth. if you don't he is going to keep acting like he does around you, you have to let him know.
2006-07-07 13:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him how u feel with him cross dressing but dont stop loving and caring for him just becaz of his lifestyle
2006-07-07 13:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Keyondra♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋