Why are most "trendy" people like me looked at as if i were gay ?

Question

I've only made out with a few hot guys

Answer 1

First of all anyone who self labels themselves as trendy is a total jack off! Which. . ironically is probably what you are doing right now you pole smoker! Do society a favor and get back in the closet you douche bag!

Answer 2

I disagree with you that there is not any such element as a "gay" seem. there's a special type of trend that more often than not gay adult men flock to, and instantly adult men stay away from like the plague. you'd be demanding pressed to come across a instantly guy wearing tight women human beings's denims, as an celebration. that is harder to figure a lady's sexuality depending off of her clothing although. As for me... No, i don't believe of i look gay. that is a competent element although, because i'm not, lol.

Answer 3

Everyone is stereotyped these days. Either your gay, bi or straight. If a guy is seen in a pink shirt...he is said to be maybe bi. If a guy is seen talking to a guy and having that *high pitched* voice, he is said to be gay. If a guy is riding a four wheeler in the mud drinking a beer he is said to be straight. Its just the views that people direct toward each other these days, I wouldnt worry about it if I were you. If you are gay, so be it. If not, it doesnt matter what other people say.

Answer 4

Because most people that look at you as gay have a hard time breaking out of the tee shirt an jeans cycle. They see a little bit of style and can't get their heads around it.

Answer 5

sigh.... bored

Men lash out at guys they are envious of.
You look good, so girls and guys think you're hot.
Guys that are not, wish they were, and because they
are homophobes, they think calling you "GAY" is hurtful.

Which, if you like hung studs and can pull major tail...
you should take as a compliment.

If you're not gay, then you should take it as a compliment.
Knowing that they are dumb and you get all the girls.

If girls think you're gay, they'll get naked in front of you and try to convert you.

This is win win, where's the question here???
hahahahahahahaaaaa


Cheers Queen of the Metrosexual

Answer 6

What?

OK, anyways, I think it is because men just caring about fashion or appearance in general is a new idea. Only recently (within the last five decades or so) have they even begun to realize what soap is. I'm 24; so, that includes me, and I'm not gay! :)

Answer 7

Because gay men are usually ahead of the trends. I was listening to Madonna over a year before she was on the radio. When she finally started getting airtime, I was like, "finally"

Answer 8

You want people to look at you, don't you? How do you know they think you're gay? If they do, and it really bothers you so much, why don't you wear a baseball hat and some old sweats and carry a beer can around.

Answer 9

You are caught between two paradigms of masculinity. The old school says that to be masculine is to be emotionally distant, and unconcerned with one's appearance. According to to that paradigm it is "girly" to be care much about your grooming or clothing style. And to be 'girly' is to be gay. The new paradigm has more room for various models of masculinity. Yours is what is now called "metro-sexual" (e.i. straight men who are more fastidiously dressed and groomed). Our culture is a mix of these to paradigms right now- so you'll have a mix of reactions.

Answer 10

Because it is the nature of people to be small minded.

Just be proud that you are metro-sexual, my husband is and I am really glad. I don't want some dirty husband that has no idea how to groom and dress himself. Find people who accept you for who you are...