Everything I do is wrong.. No matter that it is I did it wrong. I try to get things right and bam! its friggin wrong. Why does it always have to be wrong? I try my hardest. I feel like a let down all the time.
2006-07-07 06:32:57 · 62 answers · asked by sshhmmee2000 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Thank you to all who have given my heart a reason to feel better about myself. All your kind and helpful words mean a lot. Thanks.
2006-07-07 09:05:42 · update #1
I bet you are right a lot more than you think! Is someone telling you that you are always wrong? Life has a way of happening in ways we didn't expect or didn't want. Maybe these "wrong" decisions are actually God's way of steering you in to a better path. Chin up!!
2006-07-07 06:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by -- 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am willing to bet you are not always wrong. To prove it, you're right for asking this question!!
The problem is this - when someone tells you that you are wrong, you are let down. It bothers you. Therefore, you are more prone to notice when you are 'wrong' than when you are right.
If people told you "good job" or "you're right" when you are right, you'd feel good...right? But that apparently isn't the case. Someone or some group of people are telling you that what you do or say is wrong.
Just don't worry about it. If you are wrong, so what? What difference does it make tomorrow or next week. The best you can do is try to do it right. If it can't be done right, then there's no reason for you to do it.
At least you try. Some people don't even do that.
So lift your head high...ignore it when people say you're wrong...be proud of yourself and what you have accomplished. Afterall, life is only one day at a time.
2006-07-07 06:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by casey_leftwich 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking at being wrong then you will be wrong. If you think that you will be doing right - regardless of others - you will be in a better place and have the right attitude to do what is right. It's a matter of attitude. Being positive promotes positive thinking and actions. Likewise, being negative only shows you the wrong in everything. It's a bright day and a great day every morning you wake up. Start there and you will have a great day every day! And with a positive attitude, you will attract positive people with positive thinking as well. It will also make you feel lots better. Trust me. It works.
2006-07-07 06:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Morphious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always Wrong
2016-11-07 19:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like that. Easy to say right :) your not always wrong. you Just think you are. do you know how many times I am wrong? LOTs & LOTS of times. but hey I'm human I think LOL.
try not to over think and try not to try so hard. okay see now that
makes no sense what so ever. :) Just do the best you can do that's all you can do Okay. Have a Good Day.
2006-07-07 07:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Proud Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol aww don't worry everybody's wrong sometimes...some more than others. I hate being wrong and not wanting to admit to it because I was so sure I was right lol. You could just have bad luck? Maybe you aren't looking at the whole picutre when you try to figure things out. If you're more attentive you'd pick up on more. You could be distracted by something or are just easily distracted. Trust me, you're not the only person this happens to.
2006-07-07 06:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by miss_gem_01 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I know Exactly how you feel. No one ever pays attention to you and they never notice the good things you do, just the mistakes you make. Sometimes I feel like I'm not wanted at all because no one ever appreciates what I do. I feel unnoticed and unwanted. I didn't know what to do. Do you have any siblings? If you do, do they fight a lot? I do and that's why no one paid any attention to me because they are always too busy fighting, or when my lil sis and I fight, she does something and ALWAYS blames it on me. But then I started to ignore her and stay away from her, and now my parents are complementing on how well behaved I've been. So that could the problem, but if it's something else, maybe I can help you.
2006-07-07 06:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by Speed, I Am Speed 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Funny you should ask that - my mother was just saying that about herself a few days ago. In her case, she's not happy with herself or her own decisions. Even when she does things right, she'll second-guess herself and go the opposite direction to try to correct her "mistake" which wasn't a mistake in the first place.
I live by this - Doing things in the short-term will never work out, but doing things for the long-term almost always does. Look beyond the current circumstances to your ultimate goal and then when you've reached your goal, you know that what you did was right.
2006-07-07 06:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Vanessa B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right that irresponsible people drop their dogs at shelters or the street, and then us responsible people feel we have to rescue them, whereas it is not our fault. But face it, this is the situation, in this world. And since the problem exists, people who care MUST adopt, because otherwise puppies DIE and suffer. Plus, the ones who abandoned their dogs are not the only ones to blame for teh situation. The ones who produce extra dogs are also to blame, because there are not enough owners in this world for the ones who are now alive, let alone new ones. So, I wouldn't stop at saying that breeding mutts is wrong. I have no problem with mutts. They are quality dogs as any! I believe that even with "purebreds", breeding is wrong unless a family has already been found for the new puppies and has been checked to prove that they are responsible owners, and the law makes sure thay are recorded and cannot abandon their puppy. The same way as it would have been done with a child. In addition, with mutts there is a bigger problem, because they are usually the ones who are abandoned and unwanted. It is sad, but many people still have this mentality, and breeding mutts will only create more suffering animals.
2016-03-16 21:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR NOT!
thats the beauty of the human mind, you THINK everything you do is wrong, or partially wrong, but its just because you expect so much from yourself, that even the slightest varience in your plans seems like a complete failure.
dont fret the small stuff, most of the things you probably are worrying about are so insignificant in the long run, that you'll look back and laugh at them. and yes, i know that sounds cliche, but its true.
it happens to me all the time, like when I was 18 and taking my road test, for weeks before it, It seemed like the end of my life, like it was some giant dark cloud that would decide if i lived or died.
but, after the 2 minutes of showing off my driving skills to a mean hearted DMV woman, i realized that I had been making the whole thing into something larger than life, I pulled up to the end point, and got my score sheet which told me i had passed, even when she made me parallel park right ontop of a christmas tree that had been thrown to the curb.
so, what im saying is, dont worry about so much, theres millions of things that will seem like they go wrong, when really its just your perspective on it. even if they DO go comepletely wrong, guess what, YOUR HUMAN. we make mistakes, the important thing is to LEARN from them. and yeah, that too sounds cliche, but again, its the truth.
2006-07-07 06:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by sobrien 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel like you nothing ever turned out right for me. I was such a negative person until I change my attitude and started thinking positive. You have to be positive even if the situation doesn't look to good. When you start thinking negative tell your self "I must be positve". Another thing to try is to not speak so quickly but to think about it first then respond. I learned these things when I started reading the words of Jesus.Try it for a week see what happens. I hope this helps. I am so happy now!
God Bless
2006-07-07 06:53:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋