2006-07-07 06:08:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know but I totally agree with you. If a woman is assertive then she is a *****. If a man is then he is just the kind of guy who likes to take charge.
I think they are afraid of us. and a little jealous too.
2006-07-07 06:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's because men usually like honesty but they don't want to hear anything bad (about them) So when a guy says that he likes a woman who speaks her mind, he is thinking of an indivisual woman with strong opinions... that are not directed at himself. We humans all don't like criticism.
2006-07-07 13:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by kay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man wants a women to speak her mind about anything becase they want to see where see stands on things and if the conflicts with where he stands then he knows what buttons to push and what not to push and, i have learned it's good in some case and bad in others, we ladies are giving these males the upper hand when we put out feelings on the line we loose. i know!!! i'm in a realationship like that now and by me expressing how i feel, i have started to notice him pulling away from me, and seeing less of him. less sometimes is the best. but most important finding someone who is on the same page as you
2006-07-07 13:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it, I'm the type of guy that like to speak my mind as well so I love being in controversy when certain topics come up. Im a tauraus so what can i say. I really don't mind it at all.
2006-07-07 13:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Frankie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason I dumped my ex.
Venting and bitching is not communication. It seemed every time we started talking about something, it always wound up being a complaint/***** session. HOW you express what you are feeling makes ALL the difference in the world.
No one wants to stay with a regressive person, and maybe your points are valid. Only you know that, but what you ARE in control of is how you REACT...
2006-07-07 13:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women lack tact. You can "speak your mind" and do it in a nice way. Some women (and men too) don't seem to be able to grasp that concept.
2006-07-07 13:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes men can't handle the truth,
They know that you are telling them right but they
don't want to hear it coming from you.
Now their boys can tell them anything and they
won't even get mad. Their'll just say man you're crazy.
2006-07-07 13:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by aaakids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess men are allowed to be just as indecisive as women. It sucks, but that's how it work. You should try talking to him. If you get the feeling that he's just using it as an excuse, then you should probably move on.
2006-07-07 13:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jocelyn L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are smarter in everyway and they dont want to accept it they also say they want a strong woman and yeah smart but when we use it they feel as if we are going to take over thats how stupid they are by getting intimidated hahah
2006-07-07 13:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People always say different in the begining, and then they change their mind.
2006-07-07 13:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by sodapop44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋