What is it that guys want in a girl?

Question

I AM ENGAGED TO A WONDERFUL GUY AND I WANT TO KEEP OUR RELATIONSHIP NEW... WHAT IS IT THAT GUYS WANT AND EXPECT OF A GIRL?

Answer 1

TO NEVER CHEAT ON HIM! and always love him no matter what.

Answer 2

The same thing girls want in a guy. I have a great idea for you. Before you tie the knot, try this. TALK to him, ask him this question, and answer it for him, as well. WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME? Communication is the one greatest way of finding things out, except that most people ask the wrong person the questions. It's not for strangers to answer this question, since e we're not the guy you want. Ask the guy you want, what he wants. Any time you feel separated, or the relationship becoming stale, talk, not yell, to him, and allow him to talk to you.
Forget all that B.S. about hidden meaning in what people say, tell each other the truth, and you relationship should have smooth sailing for many years.
Make a list t of what each other wants, and try to fulfill as many of them together, as a couple. Trust and honesty breed loyalty. You chosen this man to marry, now it's up to you, both of you, to become what many wish to be, HAPPY. If you hear something from someone else, don't confront, simply ask him. Don't be judgmental. Things in real life are not the movies! Trust in each other, let no-one come between you. Never ask a stranger or a friend, what men are like, because your not with all men, your with only one, and is an individual, unto himslef. If you want to know him, ask him the questions. and be prepared to do the same, when he asks the questions. It can resolve many future arguments, before they even happen.

Answer 3

Every guy wants to be with a beautiful girl, who loves him most dearly..what your guy specifically wants will depend totally on him, so i suggest that rather than asking random people about what GUYS(emphasis on the plural) want in a girl(now you got singular here..:P) you should find you what your guy wants from you..how do you do that you may ask..the best way to keep your relationship evergreen and youthful is to have a healthy communication...tell him that he can demand from you whatever he wants and you would do everything possible by your standards for him(alright don't tell him that directly...make him feel that..i think that works better personally) the more you get to know each other the easier you'll find how to keep your relationship alive...yes that's true..only you have the answers to your questions..
Hope this helps..Cheers to you..

Answer 4

Depends on the guy. If u feel like u know him enough to be engaged with him, then knowing what he wants from u shouldn't be hard.

Answer 5

Men want a woman who is willing to bend over backwards for them (literally), submissive and all that crap. Look honey, I know you want to keep things alive and new, just take it day by day. Take him out, do fun and exciting things. He'll love you for that. He's already engaged to you, surely you must be doing something right so far.....

Answer 6

Are you nuts. New does not last, just be you. Otherwise you will vreate a fantasy and it will end. Expectations in a relationship should be discussed with you partner, noone else.

Answer 7

Respected, honored, to be supported, taken up for in front of others, defended, counseled honestly on issues and decisions, believed in. Those are qualities my wife of 5 years has, and I am unbelievably in love with her, and feel a deep sense of responsibility to love, protect, and provide for her.

Answer 8

guys want unpredicatble things. They don't want the same things over and over again. But nor do they want you to turn into a completely different person. But if you weren't engaged to a guy id say who cares wut a guy wants, guys always somehow end in some sort of heartbreaking, fights, or stress. :P

Answer 9

ma, all i can tell you from my experiences is that me, personally, i want a UNDERSTANDING WOMAN!!!! someone who'll accept me for who i am & not try and change me. we live in a new error and relationships aren't conducted the old way they used to be. i mean, of course one should traditionally love and respect they're companion but other aspects of the dating world has changed &basically, women need to catch on or move on!!!!!!

Answer 10

Unconditional love. Doesn't mean smothering him, doesn't mean telling him what to do, doesn't mean talking to him while the ballgame is on, doesn't mean forcing him to watch your favorite shows, or, forcing him to go to social events. Just treat him like a king, and, he will in turn, treat you like a queen. Unconditional love. Love your man. Make love to your man. Treat him just as you want to be treated, and, you will be fine.

Answer 11

listen to me. You say your engaged to him. Well if your being yourself and he wants to marry you, then keep being yourself. Its you he fell in love with not anything you've said of done.
By the way congratulations.