Okay i have this friend he is the most gorgeous guy i have ever met and i want to be with him alot! He has a girlfriend who i know he doesn't want to be with he is just useing her for money. Should i just settle for being the friend with benefits? HELP
2006-07-07 05:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by flutter_by_baby20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be friends with benefits because then that makes him a cheater and someone will get hurt in the process. If he really is just using this girl (which might I add is wrong!) then he's not going to stay with her for very long. Just be his friend and be there for him and when the two of them do break up the fact that you've been an awesome friend can work in your favor.
2006-07-07 06:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Duckie 2 · 13⤊ 6⤋
If they do it with you they will do it to you... now that being said why are you showing so little self respect for yourself by sleeping with someone that is not willing to be with you has a girlfriend and money is no excuse if he wanted to be with you he would he chooses her so either be the whore on the side or get a good man that you won't be a convient piece to
2006-07-07 13:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He's a cad for using someone for their money, so he's not worth anything as a boyfriend to you. If he's willing to cheat on her, there's another strike against him. If you're willing to get involved with a cheater, strike against you...and remember, what goes around, comes around...what you do, you okay others to do to you...
...would you want someone else to be having sex with your boyfriend, behind your back?
2006-07-07 13:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would make him a cheater! You're a homewrecker!
2006-07-07 12:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋