My boyfriend is really funny and fun and i really like him BUT he is starting to seem really immature and i have to constantly ask him to be serious. Do i break up or just keep going with the relationship
2006-07-07 05:23:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up, lots of fish in the sea.
2006-07-07 05:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to constantly ask him to be serious than it sounds like he is a little kid. Break it off before he gets too out of control, because right now he thinks that he's got you where he wants you and you'll stay there, and then the relationship will only see more problems down the road. No worries, plenty of real men that you can find. No need for little boys.
2006-07-07 05:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by No way man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you chikadee? Being totally serious. Depending on your guy's age he could just be in his stage and have a lot of growing up to do. If you're not diggin him...there are other fish in the sea. You're not married right? You don't have to deal with it. And you dont' have to be so serious yourself sometimes. Let down your gaurd every now and then. But you two could just not be for each other. Shake hands if you must and walk the line.
2006-07-07 05:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first on a serious level and tell him that you love the way he makes you laugh but when it comes time to be serious you need him to be serious. Tell if you are not his mother and you don't want to raise a grown a** man so he better step up his plate otherwise, you should keep him as a friend til he becomes more mature.
2006-07-07 05:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by geminigurl2404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to tell him that if he cant be serious 4 1 time then u cant have a relationship w/ him. And if he takes it as a joke then u should dump him
2006-07-07 05:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. It's annoying to be with someone so immature, might as well get out while it's still kinda fun, and with as little resentments as possible.
2006-07-07 05:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would just break up with him because that is going to get so annoying but if you dont mind it then i mean do what you want BUT make sure that if you do break up with him that its what you really want!! cause there may be no turning back after that lol!
2006-07-07 05:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no how ppl can just opt 4 breakup 4 such a reason.... u seem to b immature.... grow up... some ppl r like tht.. u cant tell them immature... if he is younger than u then thing is different...but still u must not leave him.. he wil take time.. wait if u love him or like him... u no 1 thing.. spending time wit such a person is more better than a bore...matured..prson
2006-07-07 05:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by hitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fun to be with funny people, you just need to make him know the limit you can take the unseriousness so that he can know when to stop being funny and be serious.
2006-07-07 05:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by oluwatobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't keep asking him to be serious. That means you want to change an aspect of his personality. WOMEN you cannot change a man to suit your needs. If you don't click, move on.
Have you tried talking to him about how you feel?
2006-07-07 05:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by treasures320 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋