ppl all around me do but not me........sometime i try hard 2 ignore but then.....its really very hard 2 beat da lonliness........am 18.........help!!!!!
2006-07-07 05:22:17 · 16 answers · asked by kate_hot1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
trust me,i've been through there and I've asked myself the same question...its perfectly normal to not have a bf,maybe its not your time right now.Don't try and think about it so much.Hang out with your friends,go to party,just keep yourself entertained.Having someone in your life is not a priority or a necessity.Just live life...
2006-07-07 05:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Pammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to not have a bf. The question is do you want a bf because everyone else has one or do you want to get to know someone , spend time with them an fall inlove as time goes. When your lonely and looking for love it doesnt always happen. It is when you least expect it to happen. you are the one who need to be happy with yourself before involving someone else. There is nothing wrong in being 18 and single.
2006-07-07 05:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl, you're only 18...what in the world would you want a boyfriend for.
go out, have fun, party...enjoy your young life.
I've been in a steady committed relationship for 12 years now...and I wish wish wish I had taken more time to be free and flirt and play. Now, every time I flirt and play the old ball and chain yanks on my chain..and that ain't no fun!! Friends are more fun than boyfriends!
2006-07-07 05:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by caughtfishin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 18, and you type like that? Wow, kind of pathetic in my opinion. -Sighs- Society these days...
Anyway, yes it's normal not to always have a significant other. I don't see why you'd want one so bad. It's nice to be on your own and not have any obligation or have to drag somebody behind you. People are too reliant on intimate relationships, when in actuality they should be focused on themselves as opposed to another individual. Guys will come and they will go in their own time, don't rush it.
2006-07-07 05:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tranquility 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh believe me i have been in your position many times, it seems like each time you don't have a bf everyone else does. But being single isn't the end of the world.
2006-07-07 05:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing abnormal about that.
Don't get a bf just for the sake of having one. Love is a sacred thing. If you take it seriously (not saying that you are not taking it seriously), you can save a lot of hurt
2006-07-07 05:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by knitting guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go................ you'll find the one for you when you least expect it. Let love sneak up on you, it's more fun that way.
P.S. Before you rush off and marry the first guy that comes along, make sure you are in love with HIM..... and not the idea of being in love.
2006-07-07 05:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young, honey! You must be busy getting your life set up, don't worry about not having a boyfriend.
2006-07-07 05:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by Dolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey enjoy it while it lasts consider yourself lucky you get to avoid all the stress for now.
And dont worry your time will come
I wish i was single
2006-07-07 05:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by roonie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl its ok if u dont have a bf its only nice in teh begging nd den its liek kind of booooooooooooring
2006-07-07 05:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by x_brunett4life_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋