Perhaps you're trying too hard.
Be yourself, unless you're a real jerk, then be a nice, considerate gentleman who talks to the ladies and not to their chests.
2006-07-07 05:25:01
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answer #1
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answered by parsonsel 6
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Dude, just be yourself, unless you are somewhat of a creep. Don't be too nice either. You shouldn't put girls first all the time first of all. You should show girls your soft side as well though. I personally like guys that are good to their moms, but not complete momma's boys. You should try to stay in shape, it shows you have respect for yourself. You should try to be a layed back kinda guy but you should have fun too. And don't just sit around waiting for girls to come to you. Even if you get turned down, girls really like it when a guy makes the first move.
2006-07-07 12:25:59
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answered by clowddancer 2
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First of all, I would look at his character, not his good looks per se. I don't look at a man who reeks of sex appeal and charisma. Generally, the man who dresses like Arsenio Hall isn't hankering to be a Homebody. If you want a steady, dependable relationship, you've got to find a steady, dependable girl. When you meet a girl make sure she has no interesting problems about herself. Feels good about herself. Feels good about where she is in life. Doesn't draw you into her psychodrama. Appreciate those times in your life when you are without a relationship. Strengthen your friendship. Further your career. Do life your way. Find yourself. Develop new interests.
2006-07-07 12:36:52
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answered by Ivy C 2
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Be yourself. Try joining in activities that you see at school. Clubs. Social groups. If you're religious, youth groups can a way to meet someone nice. Give it a little time, and don't try too hard.
2006-07-07 12:25:42
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answered by Iggy 7
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Self confidence is the key. Have fun with your friends and don't try too hard. Sit back and don't hit on a girl until all your friends have irritated her first then try too hard, act like you don't care.
2006-07-07 12:54:06
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answered by Suzanne M 2
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lol right now...i guess its either you have big money or a big d**k my friend!Even a good looking guy with a decent job can get passed off here....I dont know what you are like so i cant realy answer your question....but if you have any of the above two ie (BM or BD or even better both) you'll be fine.
2006-07-07 12:28:37
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answered by sravenzz 2
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ok this works for me but i look ok im not sure what you look like but just to them be nice and smile a dahm lot like they pick up that you like them. make obvious but dont tell them if they like you back trust they tell you if its a really hot girl you might have too make the extra efort and ask them out always works for me
2006-07-07 12:29:29
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answered by bill 2
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it is impressive when a man acts like himself. do not come on tooo strong. i found yahoo personals to be helpful.
2006-07-07 12:26:10
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answered by cherry 2
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depends on the girl but a big part of it has to do with confidence, dont wait on them to come to you go to them. ask them for their number, the worst they can do is tell you no
2006-07-07 12:27:14
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answered by kenshiro 2
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just be youself.. im impressed in a guy who is fun to be with.. funnny.. and really have brains but we all have different likes and dislikes..
2006-07-07 12:27:14
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answered by kawensky 1
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