Question of confusion?

Question

I would like to know three thing what does and girl want in a guy and what do girls look for to find one that she thinks is right for her? please answer I'm just confused about that one

Answer 1

Well, you will have to narrow it down to three things for me. My perfect boyfriend would be honest (but not critical), compassionate, active (but not necessarily athletic), share my love of literature, art, & history. He must be VERY intelligent. And like cats.
I do not mind if they are a bit quirky.
A non-smoker. Does not abuse substances.
Not everyone cares about looks. As long as they have good hygiene & try to take care of themselves & try to dress nice. After all, if they are too out of shape it is very unlikely that we will have much in common & if I do my best to stay a size six for someone they need to have the same consideration(s) for me.

Answer 2

Myself personally. I need most of all communication. If there is no communication, it's not going to happen. Communication is like the foundation that a house is built on. If you build a relationship on sand(no communication), then the relationship will have a less chance of standing. If you build a relationship on concrete (with communication) you have a better chance of a relationship lasting.
with communication, the other necessities in a relationships will grow. The relationship needs to be a two way street definately. So you both need to be try be honest, have trust, have patience, understanding, support each other mentally physically morally and financially, to make time for alone time to be wth friends or whatever, confront your concerns/problems at the earliest convenience and know when things are getting heated up and walk away for a bit, be sure to continue this concern/problem till the problem is solved to the both of your satisfaction, otherwise it will be brought up in future problems.

What I want is chemistry, to know that no matter what is going on, I know when I talk to my man or see my man, that I feel like everything is going to be ok, things will get better. I want to be able to be in his arms and feel safe and have the feeling that there is no where else I would rather be. I'm a procrastonator unfortunately, so I would like a motivator. I would also like someone who is somewhat out going someone who likes to work out (not obsessively) and who will motivate me as well.

Also, I would like for him to leave if asked or allow me to leave when I ask if I am upset or P*ssed off. I do NOT like to be held like a hostage.

Answer 3

The answers will likely vary depending on the woman...qualities that are important to me in a guy that I date are honesty, integrity, a sense of humor, ability to communicate, a kind heart, a romantic side but still a "manly man", things in common with me, but most of all chemistry or "spark". If that's not there, all the wonderful qualities in the world won't matter because romance just won't bloom.

To find a "right" guy...I don't seek...I live life and pay attention to what and who cross my path. Those who actively seek boyfriends/girlfriends tend to settle for people who are not good matches, in their desire to be with SOMEone. I'm not willing to settle, and I don't sit at home waiting for someone to come knocking on my door...I've got profiles online, I'm active in my offline life, spend time with friends and go out various places so the guys that are good matches for me, may be more likely to run across me (or me them) at some point.

Answer 4

This differs for each person. A sense of humour is a nice thing to have for a start though, honesty being another one and someone who is genuine and caring. Looks really play little part in true love.

Answer 5

Well, for different age groups it's different things. When I was in High School, I wanted a cute, sensitive, funny guy. As I grew older I wanted a stable, loving, caring, attractive man. I like a mature man, like my husband, but he also knows when to goof off and play video games with me.... it really differs from woman to woman, it's a very individualistic question I suppose.

Answer 6

well sweetie that was only two what wasnumber three? and what i want in a guy is someone who pays attention to me, is compassionate, understanding, accepting, funny, agreeable (you have to be that with me im very hard headed you could ask anyone i know that), someone who has goals in life and is actually moving forward with them(no scrubs)=)~ someone who knows that life is all about having fun and getting throught whats not fun about it someone who will stand by my side through all my ups and downs, and will let me cry on their shoulder when i need to cry or wheni want to laugh they will laugh with me or when im mad and frustrated they get the hell out of the way lol j/k and when i find all that in a guy i know i've found the right one

Answer 7

They go for looks and material things, if he has his own place and a nice car, they go for him. But then they complain because he turns out to be a dick, and still complain that the right guy is hard to find. Girls are materialistic, don't be fooled.

Answer 8

sense of humour, sensitivity and honesty r the first things that come to mind but i think most girls just wants 2 feel special and understood, sounds complicated but when u meet the right girl you'll know how to be everything she needs!

Answer 9

All women are different
I wanted (found and married) a man that was sweet, funny, a hard worker, great in bed, a best friend, who likes to talk and listen, I could go on and on. I'm sure if you just be yourself you wont have any problem!

Answer 10

Really in all honesty, we don't know. We can tell you we want this or that and then as time goes on it really aint that important anymore. But what we do know, is we want someone who can love us unconditionally. If you can muster up that much (meaning giving yourself completely without limitations) then we are all yours. We want to be ourselves, we want to do what we like, have our mood swings, p.m.s without you being overly sensitive, we want to walk around comfortable at times (big clothes or none at all) we want to be loved for all our flaws... If you can handle being yourself at all times you will attract just that... You can't pinpoint just one thing cuz we want so much!!!!! You want be confused for long if you PRAY and ask God for guidance to someone that can give you unlimited love just as I sense you are willing to give.