what do you think about me (18 yrs old) dating one of my best friend's brother? he just graduated with me and i didnt start talking to him a lot till this summer but i guess iv always had a small crush on him. he's so awesomely nice. do think its a bad idea because of the friend thing?
2006-07-07 04:47:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this could go either way - but here's to hoping in YOUR favor!
If this is your best friend's brother, then chances are it will be a good thing! Imagine (if things go to this level) your best friend being your sister-in-law! How cool is THAT?
I would like to advise you on this . . .
Keep in mind she was the best friend before you had the boyfriend. Stick with her, through thick and thin. Make sure you spend equal amounts of time between them. Don't ever make her feel "left out".
Girlfriends are there forever, boyfriends can be temporary!
The only awkwardness I see from this situation, is if you and the guy break up. Will that be weird for you to see him all the time when you're with your best friend? Or is this something you'll be able to handle?
Talk to your girlfriend and get her honest opinion. First and foremeost, save the friendship!
2006-07-07 04:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth, plus its just too cool to be dating your best friends brother (all in the family)
2006-07-07 11:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by sara76c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and she how they feel about you dating their brother. If they're cool with it, go for it. If not, you have to re-evaluate your friendship, is a relationship with this guy worth losing your friendship over?
2006-07-07 11:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as u dont mess up ur friendship by ditching ur friend for her brother then it should be cool
2006-07-07 11:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by lilsexyshortie209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If your friend gets mad, then she's not a real friend. Friends should want you to be happy.
2006-07-07 11:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ted (Guitar Legend) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young and she should understand that young people date lots of other young people ... just do it. If she gets mad, she will get over it.
2006-07-07 11:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by living this life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great. That means you really Know your partner
2006-07-07 11:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Good P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont and i think its a healthy relation
2006-07-07 11:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, but talk to her first.
2006-07-07 11:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, that happens alot! just make sure its okay him your bro first.
2006-07-07 11:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋