ineed help and fast i am in realy like with this lad but at the end of the month im moving (not to far but thats not the point) and i dont no how 2 tell him coz i get embarrest nshy real easy and i just dont no wat 2 do help!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-07 04:40:48 · 22 answers · asked by melli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he isnt like the rest of the lads ive known coz hes more popular thn me yeah we hang out but like he sort of overwhelms me so im worried he mite throw it back in my face and my friends will think im some sort of slapper
2006-07-07 04:54:21 · update #1
First of all if this guy feels the same about you then he should understand your problem and be there for you when that time comes. Second, if you really like him as much as you say you do you should be very honest and be straight with him. Keeping things from him until the day of the move or even a week is not good. Be yourself and be honest and he will understand. There is always the weekends to see each other and the phone and computer to talk on. Don't be worried what he thinks if he likes you then he will understand if not then he wasn't for you.
Roadog
2006-07-07 04:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by roadog2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he in "reallly like" with you? If he's not, then it doesn't matter. If he is, write him a note. Or lie, and tell him that you plan to stay exactly where you are, but that the earth is going to shift, which will result in him and everything else being exactly the same distance away from you that you're going to move. That has worked for me twice.
2006-07-07 11:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, tell yourself that if you don't, you will lose him forever. At some point you have to get over being shy, that will really hold you back. You could also try a note, hinting, but the best way is to just tell him.
2006-07-07 11:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by natex14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him say I have some bad news I am moving to where ever you are moving and see what happens the longer you put it off the harder it will be
2006-07-07 11:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you want him to say goodbye to u if ur moving or atleast no u left town....He will call the police and look for a missing person if u dont tell him.....<3
~Taryn
2006-07-07 11:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Taryn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you are moving but you will stay in touch some how!!!!!!! But why are you so nervous since your not moving to far you'll still see him right...... but if not just go to his house and talked to him you just cant move and not tell him that would be crazy!!!!!!!!
2006-07-07 11:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just tell him before you move you never know maybe he feels the same way? You never know. But you defiantly need to tell him before you move.
2006-07-07 11:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by mgw20nwv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to grab coffee or something sometime. If you're not going far then you guys can still hang out, etc.
2006-07-07 11:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jon J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
letters work really well. write how you feel and let him know you're moving and just give it to him or leave it somewhere he will definitely get it. if you're not into writing then just tell him, what do you have to lose?
2006-07-07 11:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by simple1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him a note with all the tasty info
2006-07-07 11:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋