If a woman tells you that you're silly is that bad or good?

Question

this woman came in work and told me that i was silly and thats the second time in six months so im wondering do i need to act different but thats the real me so i dont know what to think

Answer 1

How well do you know her? And how often do you talk to her? How does she say it? Condeming?smiling?As she's walking away? She may be insulting you, or may really like you alot. It's a woman! We'll never understand them. lol
Just be yourself.

Answer 2

You need to be able to read the tone of voice, body language and consider the context of how the remark was made. If she's having a good time with you and she laughs and says something like "Oh, you're so silly!" it's probably a good thing. If, on the other hand, she doesn't appear to be amused and says something like "Don't be silly!" or "Oh, that's just silly", then I'd say it's NOT a good thing. You need to learn to read people.

Answer 3

First of all why r u keeping up with this lady and how much she calls u silly? Do u like her? You don't need to act different for anyone. You should always be yourself no matter what. Especially if you like her. If you want to impress her you will do it by being yourself. And in my book silly is a good thing.

Answer 4

Well first thinks first allways be yourself silly or not

and I do not know what you were doing but I so not think silly is bad

now if she says you are wierd then worry

another point does this persons opinion really matter in the bigger scheme of your life

Answer 5

Well if you're acting silly in a gay way then you need to stop that. If you're acting silly in a dorky way, then don't worry you're doing good and just tell her she's a dweeb. Be playful. Have fun.

Answer 6

It really depends. If you make them laugh it's good but if you upset them it's bad. you shouldn't change yourself because a women told you that you were silly. Be yourself some ladies like silly men.
Good Luck

Answer 7

Silly is a good thing. Well to me anyways!

Answer 8

that totally depends on how she says it. If she says it and is smiling and lightly slaps you on the arm, it means your doing a good job. If she's saying it like in a way that looks like she's saying your silly like a clown, that's usually not good.

Answer 9

Depends upon her expression and tone of voice when she says it. If she was playful then she probably appreciates your being silly. If her tone was more serious then perhaps you may wish to tone it down a bit. Up to you.

Answer 10

If she tells you that you are silly there are two conclusions

first, she likes you.
second, you act silly around her.

it's all good because if you do act silly around her, it's because you like her, and she knows that.

I hope you guys have 10 babies together