im young skinny brown hair brown eyes about 6'1 good posative atitude a good gentlmen, funny and easy to be around, why is it that i cant keep a girlfriend the last two that i had cheated on me.
2006-07-07 04:33:00 · 12 answers · asked by chef 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the right one will come around just remember tht it's not ur fault tht they chose to cheat on u!u just gotta be patient cause there is another person like u waiting 4 the one.
2006-07-07 04:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your bad luck. Just believe that not all women will cheat on their man. Some reasons women MAY cheat are because the guy is too smothering, the guy treats her like a jerk and puts her down, there is no passion or sex anymore, or maybe the guy even cheated himself on her. I don't think you have done any of the above, so I think you just unfortunately picked 2 bad apples which shouldn't be held against future women you date. You have to ask yourself some hard questions and reflect back on both these relationships. Do you think maybe you smothered them with too much affection or more affection than they gave you? Some girls don't like that and get turned off by it. Did you spend a lot of time with these past girlfriends? or did you spend more time with your friends instead? I think you should just forget about them and move on. It will take time to get over the hurt and betrayal but you will find someone else even though you may not believe that right now. Good luck!
2006-07-07 11:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not be you at all - it could be you're choosing to go out with the wrong type of girl. Next time you choose a partner, look for someone different - maybe a little more mature? I think you sound like you have a lot to offer & you sound like a good catch to me! hang in there & keep looking - maybe try dating around instead of settling down into an exclusive relationship - play the field a little & have fun. Good luck!
2006-07-07 11:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't be down on yourself b/c of their unfaithful-ness. Remember its not about you its them. You are, well, you sound like a good-looking kind gentlemen that needs to look for a sweet girl that won't break your heart again. Just note just because you've had two bad experiences with crazy women doesn't mean you'll have another. Not all women are alike and if your confident in yourself you'll find a good one real soon!!!
2006-07-07 11:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THAT, COULD BE A NUMBER OF THINGS. HOW THEY ARE TREATED BY YOU COULD BE A BIG FACTOR.
THERE ARE A LOT OF WOMEN OUT THERE WHO GO FROM MAN TO MAN & WHO DON'T KNOW THE MEANING OF THE WORD COMMITMENT.
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU THOUGH BECAUSE YOU DESERVE BETTER.
2006-07-07 11:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush tale your time the time will come when you will meet the dream of your llife.
2006-07-07 11:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by dirtbiker_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to the best of us, just be patient. She's already on her way.
2006-07-07 11:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by Crista B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right one yet.
2006-07-07 11:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lack confidince thats all you need to make a relationship work
2006-07-07 11:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably because u haven't talked to me yet
2006-07-07 11:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by lilsexyshortie209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋