I have been attracted to my best friend's sister for quite some time now. I am 19, she's 18, my friend is 20.
I want to ask her out, but I don't know how my friend would react. What should I do? I really like her.
2006-07-07 03:52:57 · 30 answers · asked by lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually I think she likes me too.
2006-07-07 04:00:45 · update #1
i was in that situation she liked me too we hid it at first then we told my friend her brother and he didnt like and tried to break us up but he got used to it he was affried that it would effect me friendship with him but i made a special effert so it wouldnt now we are broken up and iam still friends with the 2 of them
2006-07-07 03:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There has always been an unspoken code in my family -
You don't go out with your sister/brothers friends. Reason? well if the relationship goes wrong you could lose a good friendship.
It's just not done. If you fancy each other leave it at that.
2006-07-20 19:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her that much just go for it but if i was you i would have a word with your friend and tell him that you like his sister and that you want to ask her out, at the end of the day he can't stop you but he might feel better if you tell him first instead of just asking her out.
good luck with your mates sister.
2006-07-21 10:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely talk 2 ur friend 1st, my friend came onto my sister behind my back and it caused all sorts of problems 4 the 3 of us! i'm sure ur friend would much rather u were honest, it would prob install some trust that u care about this girl and would treat her rite! good luck
2006-07-16 13:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by twiglet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mate then ask the sister out
2006-07-19 11:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your friend know how you feel and that you are serious your friend should be cool with this just dont forget dont tell personal stuff to the other person or there will be problems keep your friendship with your mate and your relationship with his sister separate
2006-07-18 08:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by RJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out I,ve been out with quite a few of my friends sisters and as long as you are honest and don't mess them about too much your friend will be fine about it
2006-07-20 15:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never NEVER ask out any member of your friends family cause it will cause friction, plus are you sure you like her and its not just that your lazy (by getting with them you dont have to look around for someone else)
2006-07-17 04:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by disney princess whore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mate he may give you the green light, if not ask ureself if its worth loosin a mate over there are other fish in the sea
2006-07-17 13:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by cas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha, the age old dilemma. I can't see this working out, if you split up you will lose her and your mate.
If you are that serious, you need to speak to your mate for approval. But from experience you will end up losing
2006-07-07 10:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋