He just doesn't feel like having sex with his gf. And if so, then only for having a baby. Is this normal? That guy seems to be really cool and also not cheating. What would you do?
2006-07-07 03:40:51 · 18 answers · asked by Cherry Pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MIND MY OWN BUSINESS!!!!!
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2006-07-07 03:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by alice b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on how the women feels about this issue, if she believes in having a open sexual relationship she will probably be very uncomfortable about this issue. He may be brought up with a strict religious order and that's why he believes such things should happen only for conceiving, I mean he is not weird and it is not bad for many people around the world. Its just odd to us Americans I think. Don't worry about it, communicate with him and if that doesn't sound cool to you then get out. There's plenty more where that one came from!
2006-07-07 10:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of comments between the couple .Before it gets turned on you .And you were the one that said #$^%$&^ , be his freind and let him handle his sex life .She may not care , she might feel the same way .Not everyone enjoys sex often .My adult daughter told me ( why I don't know ) but she said her & husband have sex once a month .I said ok , are you okay with that ? Trying not to voice an opinion , but She seem to want the subject open . She stated once a month is the best sex I've ever had with %%#^$ that was everyday .And it gives us that new excitement each time . I asked why she brung it up , she said laughing and dancing Tonight is our night ! ! So I supose it was just too much excitement for her to keep in .
2006-07-07 10:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because the guy is cool doesn't mean he's normal in his private life. That goes for everyone.
I'd just keep being friends with him.
If I were her, I would be worried that he didn't find me attractive. That's surely a bother to her........
Actually, I bet he likes you. He might be telling you this stuff so that you know he's not attracted to her. Why would he tell you that kind of stuff about someone he wants kids with?
2006-07-07 10:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with that... not every guy is a horn dog...
i actually know a couply, you may not believe it but it's true. they had never had sex, even to have a baby. they used artificial insemination...
some guys are just like that... or maybe he's just shy to show what he really feels to you... maybe he does want it or intimidated by the size of his thing...
Depends on guys though... most would want it I'd say. But if he doesn't, it doesn't mean that it's not normal. It's perfectly fine.
2006-07-07 10:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by spec1227 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do anything; this is perfectly normal. I actually did an assignment on this in university (and even dated someone who was asexual). It's just a lack of desire for sex, kind of the opposite of someone who wants to have sex all the time. No big deal.
2006-07-07 10:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by psykhaotic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter if he is gay or straight. If he has absolutely no sex drive except for the sole purpose of conception, then most partners would leave him. With his philosophy how could he possibly be gay. Maybe him and Michael Jackson have something in common.
2006-07-07 10:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by Belle Noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with him. If he doesn't have a sex drive, then he doesn't have a sex drive. Sex isn't the only thing in a relationship. It's his and his girlfriend's business.
2006-07-07 10:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is solid without sex, then it really doesn't matter... (Personally, *I* couldn't do that.)
Is it normal? Well... I guess you'd have to define normal. s he happy? Is his girlfriend happy? If you've answered yes to both, then there really isn't anything TO do...
2006-07-07 10:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by Village Idiot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... asexual means you can reproduce by yourself... I guess assess your relationship in general. If you don't mind not having children or ever having a sexual relationship, then it's fine.
2006-07-07 10:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by eseabea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this relationship. This is not what you need at this time. If it was you would have never posted this question...
2006-07-07 10:45:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋