2006-07-07 03:31:53 · 22 answers · asked by Married Male 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i really dunno i never had one but i think i would probably like it
2006-07-07 03:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by moka29420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it's great, if you set your limits ahead of time. I've had 2 of these relations and from the beginning, things were "clear" about no ties, commitments, complete privacy.
There is the "understanding" that it will not go any further than just sex.
I have 3 of MY own RULES though . . .
1 - I don't play with "forbidden fruit". I do not believe in being unfaithful. If either of us are in a committed relationship, I don't even consider doing it.
2 - If things start to get out of hand (like if I think he wants more), I stop the benefits. He'll have to find another HMO!!! lol
3 - I hand-pick who I decide I do this with. I have to trust them COMPLETELY! (That's why there's only been two!)
2006-07-07 10:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything can stay strictly platonic. I usually don't have a problem with this. A lot of the times its the guy who gets jealous and sprung when he sees you with someone else. Don't sign up for soemthing you cannot handle, lol
2006-07-07 10:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Belle Noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that there is anything wrong with it. I have a couple friends that I "use" when i am in between boyfriends. I think as long as both partners agree that it is strictly sex and nothing more, there should not be a problem.
2006-07-07 10:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the adults are mentally and emotionally mature enough to handle that situation, it can be wonderful. But keep in mind, it's more than a booty call.... it is also a friend.
2006-07-07 10:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Raggedy Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it is hard... in my opinion women get attached very easily. Therefore even in a friends with benefits relationship she is emotionally attached.
2006-07-07 10:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by beccasc02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine, as long as both people understand that that is what it is and don't start having other expectations of each other. And as long as both people are not attached to someone else.
2006-07-07 10:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as we both agree that their are no strings attached, sounds like some fun booty call to me.
2006-07-07 10:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should only marry your best friend. I did and it's great.
2006-07-07 10:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Elf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know cause I never had one. I am always on the giving side
2006-07-07 10:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mamamia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't like it, i would want a stable man, normally when your in a relationship with a guy, the guy IS your best friend.
2006-07-07 10:35:10 · answer #11 · answered by iwannajess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋