ok then honest answers only. I met a girl on the net she is an absolute diamond we got talking and chatting exchanged numbers and told eachother about life. Lastnight i got a really strange message from her and now she has the right hump with me and will not answer me. do I leave it or should I try and contact her some more. Baring in mind we havent seen eachother face to face, but i do really like her and hoped sh really liked me or she may have lied.... HELP
2006-07-07 03:31:30 · 14 answers · asked by mrpickle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hasnt she she tried to talk to you about her change of heart? Maybe she found something out??
and Josh is right girls watch because the person may not be who they make themselves out! I mean I just noticed in some of your answers that you have been living very happy with a girl for 4yrs yet in another you make it clear you like nothing better than to sleep around and enjoy 3some then you have bare face cheek to comment on cheating partners! dont get me wrong we all can be a bit shakey with the truth its the net but whats all that about?
2006-07-07 03:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you don't know this girl. Honestly,you don't KNOW that she actually is a girl. Internet relationships are cool
but they're not the same as relationships in the real world. We
only see what is wanted to be seen when we're on-line.
Maybe she lost her nerve. I would bet she told a friend about your
relationship and that well-meaning person advised her to be careful about you. Just give her a little time,maybe she'll re-consider. If not,move on. Maybe find a person in the real world
to have a relationship with.
2006-07-07 04:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be patient about her and internet relationships, because they're so fragile. You might not treat her as the person you already know in person because you still don't know her so really well. It could happen that you have really found each other. It aslo could happen that you're thinking about chatt in a very serious fashion whereas she doesn't take it so seriously. Since she has given you her phone number, it must be something a bit more serious with her too. Wait for a while, untill you realize what it's going on..
2006-07-07 03:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, and may be after a week try to contact her. Be patient, when you contact her try to find out why she behaved like that. It looks like you were really inlove with this girl. It really happens, I fell inlove on line with a man & broke up twice and made up. We are fine now. So do not loose hope, not yet.
2006-07-07 03:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by cuti g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You can give it some time and than try to contact her again, but really, just move on. The hazards of meeting someone online is that they may not be who they really are.
2006-07-07 03:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by Josh H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet Relationships have 96% of failure chances so I guess in ur case ask her out the reason if she answer u back then just move on
2006-07-07 03:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange message and not answering shortly after being an absolute diamond ?!! wear isn't it !! i would say contact her a Little more only because of curiosity .. don't you feel curious to know !!
2006-07-07 03:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave her alone mate! If she can drop you without a proper explanation I would say she aint worthy of you!!
In future I would recommend starting a relationship face to face though.....
2006-07-07 03:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anniez say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it... You'll always wonder "HUH???", but I would just forget... Move on with your life... I've had a few like that in the past, and just put it all out of my mind...
2006-07-07 03:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this is no good at all. take it easy and just go on with your life. there are no real Internet relation. its all about fake intimacy with lots of fantasy. help your self and go on with life.
2006-07-07 04:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋