A while back I recieved a phone call from my boyfriend and he began telling me that his ex-girlfriend, whom they have been good friends throughout our relationship, now has been saying "Your girlfriend is a *****. She has been cheating on you and cannot be trusted." So my boyfriend has ended their friendship. The only thing is that I have met her and have hung out with them and so she knows what I am like, yet when my boyfriend and I broke up for a little while and eventually got back together, I find this out. Then on her MySpace page she writes, ", the last thing of the day was seeing an ex-boyfriends myspace page. I opened it up and started crying. I love him and I always have. I have never gotten over him, and every time I sing the song like we never loved at all, I think of him. ... I've never been able to stop thinking of him." All this has been getting me all crazy. I had a slight suspicion that she still likes him. I am not sure what exactly I should do now that this came up.
2006-07-07 03:30:53 · 7 answers · asked by miltary_brat001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also have been noticing several signs that seem to point that he may in fact still have some feelings for her. Yet I know that he cares about me but I just can't get over this feeling that I am missing something there that I am not noticing.
2006-07-07 03:38:23 · update #1
jealous or not what matters is your relationship... not the fact that she wants him back....
what matters is, does your guy still like her? in your case, I'd say the answer for this is really obvious....
HE DOESN'T! Period. Look at what he did. He personally ended his friendship with that girl because she's trying to ruin you.
I'd say you're guy is so dedicated to you. He's not dumb to know that this girl wants him back. He could easily go back to her but didn't.
Your guy loves you and this is the only thing that matters.
Let's say you're boyfriend is like, I dunno, Orlando Bloom or Paul Walker or some other hot guy... Half the world likes this guy but he chose you! Yes you! What are you gonna do, get jealous of half the world or accept the fact, that you're better than half the world because he chose you.
Your boyfriend has a choice between you and that girl. And he did make a choice. It's you girl. I'd say he made the better choice ;)
Good luck with you guys! Remember that he chose you!
2006-07-07 03:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by spec1227 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would find out once and for all if she is still into him, and if she is, then set boundaries that your boyfriend can not cross at risk of losing you. Then you will see in turn if he likes her still too. But I wouldn't get down and dirty unless she starts talking trash again...then its on!!
2006-07-07 03:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by cutipi_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that your b/f's ex is jealous of you and when you guys hang out togther she may get more jealous just dont pay attention to her if he doesnt love her and he loves you then i just wouldnt worry about her!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-07 03:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But he doesn't like her, anymore. He likes you. That's why he's with you.
She'll find someone new and move on, she's still getting over her broken heart.
You'll be okay.
2006-07-07 03:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by babyitsyou31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,it happenes all the time,and yes maybe she's done this out of jealousy.there are some sick ppl out there who don't appreciate wat they have after they lost it and become someone else's.all u gotta do is to talk to ur bf about it,show him that u love him and appreciate wat he does for u.but Don't Cling on him,that would turn him off totally.a tip for u is try to befriend with his ex maybe she'll know and appreciate wat u both have and gets her conscious back after u both get together as friends
2006-07-07 03:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go tell her..what r u doing??? go out and get another man..u r not too bad right??to be love by sum men else around there..???
2006-07-07 03:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by yos w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous.
2006-07-07 03:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋