Why am I jealous when my sis in law and bro in law are very close to each other?
My sis in law is 17 and my bro in law is 13 but im really jealous about their close attachment....and they even sleep on the same bed in the night...or even at day time..it's killing me out of jealousy and i come home late coz of this problem..
My question is AM I IN LOVE WITH MY SIS IN LAW?
If Not WHY AM I JEALOUS WITH GUYS WHO SPEAK TO HER?
Pls...im in a very very desperate situation....I can't ask anyone about this except from you all...pls help me out of this rubbish...pls..
2006-07-07 03:19:30 · 15 answers · asked by kush99100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i believe you have a problem bc you are 34 and this young girl is only 17!!!! you need to seek help bc you are married and have children of your own...what would you do if a 30 something yr old man was thinking about your 17 yr old daughter like that?? although it could be just a fatherly instinct to be protective of her... but you used the word "jealous" which indicates you seek something more with her... get help talk to a shrink bc this can turn ugly realllll fast.
2006-07-07 03:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by I know best 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very serious dangerous sitution. You are old enough to know better especially that the grass is never greener on the other side. Men always infatuate about people they cant have and this is one of them. Your sister in law reminds you of a younger you, when you and your spouse and all the exciting fun you two had. Nothing good can ever come out of this if you choose to persue it further and you definitely have a hell of alot more to lose if you do, or it worth. Do a reality check and put this childish idea into perspective and forget it! good luck
2006-07-07 10:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 34 years old and married, for God's sake! Wise up! The girl is only 17!! You should be a role model for her, rather than someone who is feeling jealous of her moves. If you can't seem to get this out of your mind, you have to do everthing and anything possible to stay away from her. She's young...she has her whole life ahead of her. Don't mess it up!!!
2006-07-07 10:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and behave like a grown up man and not like a mentally retarted person. Dont ruin your own life and the life of the people around you. That is the reason it is always said that you should not stay in the house of your inlaws. Be independent and move out. Concentrate on work and on your wife. Dont get bad ideas into you.
2006-07-07 10:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by sacredlovingheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful,my friend! You be treading into dangerous waters here. Sounds to me like you are falling in love with her. Does your wife now? What about the age difference? What maybe love to you might be a passing fancy to her. I would recommend a good counselor whom you could trust to help guide you in the right way in this most complicated manner. Take Life one day at a time, don't rush anything.
2006-07-07 10:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need help my friend. First of all the girl is 17. That is sick. I wouldn't even go out with a 17 year old girl, and I'm 21. I think you need therapy, and talk to God about your sinful thoughts. May God help you.
2006-07-07 10:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Dragonpack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you have some SERIOUS issues. She's a minor....just remember that if you're thinking of doing some sick, crazy ****. Who cares that she's close to her brother...that's great as a matter of fact. That's how siblings should be. Worry about your family children. You need help with this obsession.
2006-07-07 10:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Kush you asked this earlier: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atwta4wgj1OLzowJ_XN9BMPsy6IX?qid=20060706060353AArGcqj
And now we know you, your two kids, your own wife, your wife's bro and sis (they must have parents) living in one house and you are targeting your sis in law? hmmmm.....
Now you are going to tell us actually you are living in a palace (in palace it is legal to do your sis in law....)!
2006-07-07 11:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by talkbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit it, you are sick. Besides the fact I suspect this is a joke you are sick just coming up with this little scenario. Get a life...
2006-07-07 10:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get outside and get help fast
2006-07-07 10:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by TL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋