Because a woman is big a man don't want her. Why is that? Being with a small woman don't promise you will be happy because some of them can be ugly on the inside. Remember guys a big woman don't have anything to do but please you but don't get me wrong they want let you run over them either!
2006-07-07 03:17:18 · 15 answers · asked by SweetAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah, the sweeping generalization. First of all, there are many men out there who like a thick woman. Second, there are many women who are scornful of men who aren't in great shape.
Realize that people have many different reasons for their preferences. Maybe the person has health concerns and doesn't want to have to fight with their mate about an unhealthy or inactive lifestyle. Maybe the person is just brainwashed by the media's obsession with youth and thinness.
But there is something to be said for controlling weight. Some of us will always be heavier, but it is important to take steps to live a healthy life. Watching what you eat (not starving yourself) and trying to stay active will help you look and feel better. The confidence that comes with it is more attractive than perhaps any other single feature.
Regardless, don't spend time worrying about things that you can't change, such as what other people like. Focus on being the best "you" you can be and finding a decent, honest companion who cares about you for who you are.
2006-07-07 04:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by James M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can be "ugly" on the inside, no matter what they look like on the outside (big, small, average, etc). Everyone has preferences, some guys like large women, some like small, some like average, some aren't too picky...and the same goes for women's preferences with regard to the size of the men they date.
We are attracted to what we are attracted to...a romantic relationship generally isn't going to last long, without some "chemistry" or "spark" drawing the couple together...that's either there or it's not there...we don't decide to have chemistry with someone...
It's okay to not be physically attracted to fat people...it's okay to not be physically attracted to skinny people..or redheads...or people with big feet...or whatever the characteristic is...we all have our preferences and it's great that we do..if everyone liked the same thing, wouldn't things be boring?
2006-07-07 10:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of guys out there that like bigger women. Some of them are afraid of what their friends will say, but trust me, the good ones will not care. They like a little cushion when they are loving, not just bones poking them.
Some men are smart enough to realize that some nice round curves aren't too bad!! Hang in there girl, the right guy is looking for you.
2006-07-07 10:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I'm a plus size woman myself. I have a man who loves me for me. He met me while I was big. Now we have a beautiful daughter and a great life together. He tells me everyday how much he loves me and that I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him. Sure, I would like to lose weight. But when I tell him that, he says he loves me just the way I am. Hopefully you and everyone like us will find that person who will love them for who they are, and not for what look like on the outside.
2006-07-07 11:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by vcruz2005@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had equal results from men. If the man is a real man than weight should't matter. Some men worry too much about what their buddies will say or think.
2006-07-07 10:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by jayda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with big girls. All girls can be attractive or ugly makes no difference on build. But if guys are so shallow as to pre-judge girls by size then they are not worth bothering with anyways.
2006-07-11 19:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by puggtiracer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think when they are attracted to skinner women they aren't looking for anything really serious. I think when they are looking for that serious relationship then they will start looking at what is inside the person and not the outside appearance.
2006-07-07 10:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by B.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are like this but not all. Some, like some women are into appearance rather than personality.
2006-07-07 10:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of guys like big girls am a big girl and guys love me lol i don't pay them any mind i got my man some guys just are asses like the first person who answer this question
2006-07-07 10:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men are that way although the ones that are are stereo typed. eventually those skinny people get big too. you think they will still love them nah thats why those men are not the ones we go for anyways..
2006-07-07 10:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by chrltthnsn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋