My boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost four years....we love eachother to death...we talk about our future, we are close to eachother's family, and we've lived together for two years. A couple months ago, he expressed interest in talking to other women, and we stopped talking for a couple months because I was so upset. Well, we have been talking recently and he told me that I was the one and he just hasn't gotten past that "phase." He admitted he had a one night stand when we were broken up adn it made him sick and all he could do is think of me. He is 26 and I'm 31. He told me it's just a matter of when for us...not "if." I truly believe that...especailly because I've been in other relationships and have NEVER had the same feelings as when I'm with him. Am I being stupid or could this be true??
2006-07-07 03:11:33 · 8 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is the only one time that it will happen, I would let it go, he is young and just was making sure that you are the one. The only way for a guy to know that is to be with someone else.
If it does it again, then he is out.
2006-07-07 03:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems kind of funny to me. I knew my husband was right for me because he was everything I wanted in a partner. He had qualities I would not have even thought to ask for. I just knew we were going to spend the rest of our lives together. The more time went by the stronger our love grew for each other. I'm afraid that your on again off again relationship might be destructive down the road. If he leaves and has one night stands with other women and don't think that's a good sign. He may never commit fully to you. And if you do get married would you be able to completely trust him? You could get into a fight and his first response my be to leave rather then stay and work it out. You have to have communication.
2006-07-07 10:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by godwon2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never do know for certain. That's the thing about love and relationships. Its about following your heart, taking risks, getting hurt and (hopefully!) ending happily ever after.
If I were you, I won't trust any answers you'll get that either affirms or refutes your claim that you two are meant to be. You are the only one who knows the situation best and hence, you should be the one deciding.
2006-07-07 10:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Quiet Type B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be true and it could take time for everything to be ok its true about the phase that he may or may not be in just dont let your guard down so far
2006-07-07 10:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably dont have much in common, I like to do all kind of cool, fun stuff. Click on my name and read my last question. Maybe it will help you figure out what you need in a man.
2006-07-07 10:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
2006-07-07 10:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by rohitroygre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi I've been in 3 failed relationship i can speak only from what i know.I'm happily married now for 4yrs we dated for 1 yr before we said i do & i can tell you this much,i've learnd from my past and i let GOD guide me to my wife now. i prayed and HE(GOD) blessed me with my soulmate just pray to JESUS for what your heart desire is & if its HIS WILL not yours for the 2 of yall to be together it will be.GOD whats you to be happy & HE wants YOU to LOVE & BE LOVED. just pray i will pray for you both too.
2006-07-07 10:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy's a turkey. Lots of other fish!
2006-07-07 10:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by tspbrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋