This woman is f**king crazy. Let me first say that when he started dating her, i was in the process of moving out of state. Six months later i moved and was gone nearly 2 1/2 years. When i returned during the summer and obtained employment back home and she found out , she lost her mind. Now before when i lived out of state and i would call my x (regarding the kids), we both we respectful and cordial to each other, not alot of conservations besides greeting's and thank you's.
It has been hell every sense, when i call the house she demands i speak to her, she never put him on the phone or for that matter gives him the message. The obligations that we have to these kids are being dealt with with her right in the middle and i aint going there, I REFUSE TO DEAL WITH her.
He is a constant battle and with this situation.
When the kids call, they dont answer, they dont return calls or anything.
I run my show and will not allow another woman to dictate and control my enviorment.
2006-07-07 03:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by !@#$$ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He's in a constant battle with this situation because he's a wimp and won't make a firm stand when it comes to his kids. Let him contact the kids if he wants to talk to them. His wife needs to stay out of it and he needs to be man enough to see that she does. He needs to follow in your footsteps about this.
2006-07-07 03:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I am in a similar situation I think that they feel like they need to be a part of our business and mabey feel threatened in some way ?? I know with my ex he lets her or tells her to do things for my kids when they are over there such as taking them places and picking them up and dropping them off so he has put her in this position mabey it is the same with you and she kinda feels the right to be up in your business ??? have you spoken to him about her?? mabey that would solve it or tell him that from now on if he don't talk to you he will not be told anything regarding his kids .. good luck
2006-07-07 10:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by ThE OnE aNd OnLy ..PEPSIGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you sure have problems. Let the kids call their dad and when he doesn't answer or call back just tell them you don't know what is wrong with him. When it comes to communicating with him on matters dealing with the kids go through your lawyer, don't ever deal with her. As far as you are concerned she is invisible always and forever....
2006-07-07 10:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the woman is very controlling. I hate to say it, but some men are just weak. You probably controlled the relationship when you were with him. You need to talk with him about how to handle the kids and don't disrespect him or his wife. You don't want to push him away and it sounds like that's what happened.
2006-07-07 10:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by RG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not deal with her. You don't need that. You should tell your ex that he will have to be the one to contact you, that you absolutely won't deal with that crazy person, and then don't..
2006-07-07 10:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋