I want to have a genuine relationship with a lady and I have been sincere, faithful, honest, etc, etc,,, with her but the trouble is all these things I have done for her doesn't pays off.
Nobody! wants to hear and reason with the truth in this world anymore but vice versa.
2006-07-07 02:48:53 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No that's why you have to play it like it's a game.....sad but true.
People are just fkd up
Dog eat dog....you just have to take what's your and don't look back.
2006-07-07 02:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It'll darn sure pay off better than insincerity, unfaithfulness, lying, etc will...could you live with you if you were an unkewl person? Be the best "you" that you can be. THAT is the payoff...having others notice and appreciate it, is icing on the cake. The idea isn't to be a "good" person so we get rewarded by others...we do it because that's the right way to be.
If your girlfriend doesn't appreciate you for who you are, then move on. There are plenty of people who will.
2006-07-07 02:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a martyr because you are being punished for doing what is right. Sexual attraction rewards jerks and being nice is seen as week and boring. Most women have no conscience in sexual attraction.
Girls say one thing but are attracted to another. You should probably stay good at heart but be more of a jerk. Every girl you want will get laid by a jerk while you wait. Eventually they wil need a father to the kids they have with the jerk and you will be useful.
2006-07-07 03:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ben Jammin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all the above pays off in the long run with the right person, the people who it hasn't worked out with aren't honest and sincere people. Therefore, when you tell them the truth the truth hurts and they choose not to hear or accept it.
2006-07-07 02:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your eyes what is the pay off? You can't fix the world but you can make a great life with you true love . So be faithful and honest to her and don't worry about the rest of it.
2006-07-07 02:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faithfulness, honesty, etc are all requirements of a genuine relationship. Just make sure that you're "wanting to hear reason" doesn't come across like dream-crushing.
2006-07-07 02:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dan w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of "pay off" are you looking for? The object of being honest and ethical is not to get a reward for it. You do it because it's the right thing to do. If you are looking for the pay off for your actions, your motives aren't pure and any woman worth her weight will be on to you!
2006-07-07 02:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it pays off in the long run. But then again what kind of pay off are we talking about here. Care to elaborate a little?
2006-07-07 02:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but NO it doesnt payoff. I was that way to the 9's. But it rendered me broke and homeless. Meanwhile all those I ever dealt with (that were none of those virtuous things) managed to have wives and kids and money etc. God is absent thesedays.
2006-07-07 02:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long term, these traits pay off, because they are the foundation of a lasting realtionship that is beneficial to both partners. If she doesn't appreciate these things, maybe it is best to move on.
2006-07-07 02:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by But why is the rum always gone? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does pay off because it makes you a good person. And over time she will appreciate you for it.
If she cannot see that you are a good person then maybe she is not worth it and not good enough for you.
And thanks for being one more honest and faithful person in this world, God knows we don't have enough like you.
2006-07-07 02:54:33 · answer #11 · answered by rranderson1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋