I'm sorry to tell you this, but he does not exist. We are not perfect so why do we expect our men to be. You can find someone that is in-sync with you and someone that has a lot in common with you. This isn't a perfect world that we live in so the people aren't either.
2006-07-07 02:43:56
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answered by Anonymous
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My dear .. sorry to tell you .. but .. never!
I'm looking too.
The thing is, there are no perfect males or females... we all have bad things and good things.
We grow up believing that some day we will find that Prince Charming ... but that are merely stories.. in real life , passion might, or might not, evolve to into love. And love means you like to be with someone, even knowing that he has fouls.
Hope you find the closest to perfection. But remember, someone that might seem perfect to you will not seem so to many other people (and vice-versa).
But one thing it true .. it will be much easier to find him, when you are not looking. Love is spontaneous... when you are searching for it, you often are anxious to find it. And so, that expectation leads us to very often get deluded... believing we found something that really isn't there... we might even starts to see things in our partner that we wish to find, but really are just an illusion of ours.
Good Luck!
(for us both ;-) )
2006-07-07 02:50:52
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answered by bibika 1
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You need love? Buy a teddy bear go visit an old folks home. Perfect man? is there any. There isnt anyone perfect in this world.
2006-07-07 02:45:26
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answered by sweeetkisses2 3
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Why do you think you ever will?
Are you the perfect woman?
Think of it this way: If he is the "Perfect Man", he will want the "Perfect Woman".
How about giving love to the average guy. He'll give you back much more love than "PM" ever will.
2006-07-07 02:45:27
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answered by profdave99 3
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There's no such thing as the perfect man.
You have to lower your expectations. Unless you're a movie star, rich, or intelligent, you're not going to get a near-perfect man. You just need to accept this.
2006-07-07 02:41:22
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answered by Dan w 3
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Well girl I've been looking for the perfect woman but it's hard. Just be your self and go out have fun like me know, and soon you'll fined mr perfect or allmost perfect. Let it come.
2006-07-07 02:44:35
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answered by Marvin Q 1
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You will find the perfect man once you stop looking for him. Trust me on this. Best of luck.
2006-07-07 02:41:41
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answered by silent.peace 3
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When you aren't looking and when you least expect it. Pay attention to what is going on around you. The perfect man may not be the best looking one too --- just remember that.
2006-07-07 02:41:19
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answered by butterfliesRfree 7
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You will find him if you stop looking for him cause although you have this picture painted of what a man should be you are running mister "PERFECT" in the oppisite direction of you so stop looking email me for more real talk HOLLA
2006-07-07 02:42:09
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answered by let_it_xhale 2
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never, honey. i went to a marriage counselor with my ex-husband, and she sat me down and gave me some advice that i will pass on to you...
she said that the "perfect man" does not exist. she said that we just need to find out what we can live with (you know, the list of traits that we need, the ones that we want, and then whittle it down to what is realistic).then, find a man that is willing to adapt to what we need, but we must be willing to adapt as well.
on a lighter note, all of the men that i have found that fit my list already have a boyfriend of their own. :)
2006-07-07 02:48:45
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answered by guudkarma 4
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