I was madely in love,true love wth a grl,she 2 loves me since from 7 yrs but since a year i dont like her.but now she is madly in love with me..jst wnt 2 liv with me only.bt i cnt marry her.What i have 2 do.
2006-07-07 02:27:57 · 14 answers · asked by Mahesh Choudhary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to be honest with her. It is not fair to her or to you, to let things keep going if there is no desire. Please be easy with her, she will hurt. But it will be better in the long run. You can find someone one day who you love and she can find someone one day that loves her.
2006-07-07 02:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant u marry her ( i dont think u are one who is again going to complain odf famly ties and mama opposing the marriage ....all u need is a strong will to marry the gal ....be a man of ur decision ...why the hell ur parents will not respect ur decision ........and moment u say that u dont like her ...the only reason to ur thought is that she is easily available ( i guess she is too innocent ot understand how to make a guy die for her ...i mean those silly love or not love prank that girls love to play ...)
my dear friend 7 year is a long time ...and never take her availablity as ur luxury ( she wont be available if u say no to her after 2-5 years and she is the one who know u from the begining ......go with her and marry if u have guts ( love is not for cowards ...dont take it personally ....)..may the god and good be wid u ...best of luck
2006-07-07 09:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by avi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can't you love her? if you have loved her since you were 7. At least I think that is what it says "since from 7 yrs". Either way 7 years is a long time to love someone and then not love them anymore.
But, if you have really truly moved on then tell her so she can get on with her life and find someone to love her completely and not be led on by someone who doesn't care about her.
2006-07-07 09:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by kreale_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps take time out for yourself, and figure things out. Be honest with her, and let her know you don't feel the same, and you're not ready to get married. Marriage ought to be something you approach with no doubts. It may be difficult to be honest here, but better to end it, before it becomes more complicated later and having to go through the legal complications later. Good luck.
2006-07-07 09:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i think i need to go back to school again i cant read all this short hand. thats what it is right. you two have loved each other for 7 years and now you dont like her. hmm interesting. well all i can say if you dont like her move on.... end of question.
2006-07-07 09:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell her now before she gets too caught up in living with you and think that marriage is next, don;t let this girl move in without telling her the truth, we do like honesty better than lies (we forgive),but if you allow her to move in with hopes of marriage then you are the only person to blame and will reap the consequences.
2006-07-07 09:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like or love her anymore why do you live with her? Move out , break up with her don't give her hope of marriage; the longer you wait to break up the more it will hurt her.
2006-07-07 09:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by ewa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking about true love ,what you are saying ,that was children's love what is changing with time and may be know Edith growth it became ,one sided love,
2006-07-07 09:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this.. is she madly in love with you because you are not in love with her anymore? you say you dont like her, so just move on. let her find someone else
2006-07-07 09:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by jackieleacollins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you're happy just living with her. If yes, the get back together. If no, ditch her and find happiness elsewhere.
2006-07-07 09:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Dan w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋