How would you feel if you found gay porn on your BF's PC??

Answer 1

Let's be proactive instead of reactive. If he is just curious remember it is the information super highway, let it be for now. However, if this is not the first time you have seen evidence of this behavior, you need to to be aware of the consequences of this. Maybe, just have protected sex (if your having sex). Does he chat on the web? If so you may need to check to see if he has multiple profiles save on the computer, ( I can tell you how /where to look). Just remember be cool... He may just be curious but it does change real fast if it is more that just a few pages of porn which you can look at his history.

Answer 2

At first it would probably freak me out, then make me wonder if he was really into me or if he was using me for cover. You have to ask him what the deal is before you do anything. It may even be a joke or something or he may simply have been curious.

Try not to judge until you have given him a chance to explain. With my boyfriend, I know he is so into the sexual part of our relationship that there is no way he is gay. You should know how the two of you are together. Don't let something like this be a bigger deal than it is. Talking to him is the only way to figure it out. Good Luck.

Answer 3

it's up to you, would it bother you if your boyfriend looked at porn? or is it the fact that it's men? I'm a straight female and I watch porn..and most of them are females. He may just be curious and you have to be positive no one else has touched that computer before you go accusing him of anything. Whoever did it, it wasn't a mistake think of how many times you mistakenly went into a gay porn site...I haven't done it once!

Answer 4

If it were me, and I still want to stay with him, I'd try to find out if he himelf put it there or if it was automatically put in by some internet ad programs. I installed a program one time and all of a sudden, in my Favorites folder in my pc, I found a lot of shopping sites, chat sites and porn sites that I did not put in and my friends were shocked. If he did put them in himself, I'd try to find out if he's gay or bisexual. I'd tell him that if I want to continue being in this relationship, I want him to be honest and open about everything and that if he can't be honest and share some important facts that I need to know with me then I would end the relationship. Btw, if you guys saw it, did your bf enjoy Brokeback Mountian?

Answer 5

A quick response to JB -- PLEASE even if he was curious about penis size ETC, I doubt a guy would go out and get a freaking GAY PORN CD, instead why not just watch regular porn where you can compare there (by regular i mean NON HOMO).

Girl dump his a$$. What if he goes out and cheats on you with some gay guy and catches HIV then passes it to you.

Answer 6

I would be very Connor of why my bf would put gay porn on his PC. i would then just leave him and tell him that he is gay in a nice matter not in a bad matter. then end our relationship

Answer 7

I'm not gay, but if I was, I would probably be quite excited.
On the other hand, if I were to find lesbian porn on my girlfriend's PC, I would be quite excited.

Answer 8

Ok, first of all, what are you doing snooping on his PC? Second of all, was it just gay porn or was it a combination? Alot of the videos have a little of it all......so do the downloads.....

Answer 9

I'd feel bad in the beginning but I think I would talk to him and understand his feelings. It's really hard to become gay so be comprehensive. Lots of times though men watch it just for fun. They want to discover what it's like. As I said. Just try talking.

Answer 10

First - I'm sorry but that's funny.
Second - you should be worried that he's got a bit of a fancy for the pickle. I think you should say something about it. Maybe he's bi-curious or maybe he was just checking out their sizes compared to his, some guys are hung up (pardon the pun) on size.